Topic : Your Parenting Style

My daughter is 3 years 9 months, she doesn't want to go to Kg., and i want to get a job. Lucky me i find a job in her school, but still she wants to stay home one year more. She doesn't want me to leave the house  or get a job. She said (mamy please i want to sleep, mamy please i want to stay home). I don't know what to do, is she still young to go to Kg.?

Please i need help, tell me what you think, i feel so guilty, i feel i'm a bad mother , am i?           

As in my title you will always be their father.  You need to stand firm and try to get along with the mother.  When I was divorced I hated my husband, my daughter was five.  Two years later God answered my prayers and now we are friends.  We do things together with his wife and step children.  He does not see his daughter much at all anymore for some reason.  She has paid the price with rebellion, and costing me a lot in therapy for her which she blocks out.  She looks to guys for attention she is 14 yrs old.  If she had her father in her life I think things would be better.  As a single mom I can only do so much.  I cant feel the hole in her heart from this.  I pray and ask God to come into her life and protect her.  I do discipline my child.  She sees me as weak but her father as strong.  When she does see him her eyes light up.  I pray everyday that he will see the light.  He is a goo dad but not to his own.  Children need their fathers in their lives even if they dont admit to it they do.  They hold their feelings inside.  I see the pain in my childs life.  Dont make that mistake.  Sounds like  you are a good dad, but dont ever give up on them, they are yours.  God bless you in your life with your kids.