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cameronsmom
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April 17, 2007, 7:04 am PDT

I'm Pregnant!

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hey chick all i have to say is not to worry at this stage. its harder for guys to bond and realise that their lives have changed when youre still pregnant than it is for us. as i found when i was pregnant my partnerdidnt know really what to do but when our boy came he was wonderful.

 

you cant stress at the moment coz you have this wee one in your belly counting on you. just see what happens after the bubba comes and if hes still the same just have a real good heart to heart. but sometimes things dont work out but in the end you have this awesome lil bub who loves you and you can do it on your own. not saying that this will hapen but if worst comes it can be done k.

 

talk to him luv if you havnt already. just remember its harder for the partner to bond and its very easy for us

 

keep me posted and good luck

 

Hey Girl,

I've been where you are.  I had my son when I was 18.  I am now 25 and I am happily married to a man that takes good care of my son even though he is not his biological father.  Everything will work out for the best for you.  If you two are meant to be together ,you will last.  If you do not stay together it is not the end of the world.  The thing you need to remember is your baby will be one of the best things that eve happened to you and you have a huge responsibility.  Your b/f needs to figure out if he is ready for that responsibility.  Everything will go good for you.  Keep in touch.
 
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April 17, 2007, 9:29 am PDT

I'm Pregnant!

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 I am 19 years old.. and 6 months pregnant.. The father of my baby and I have only been together for 1 year...This wasnt a planned pregnancy.. and he was not real supportive untill about 1 month ago...and now again is not being too helpful.. I dont know what to do... I am sad because I love him,, but yet I know I have my baby and I to take care of.. and not to worry about him..but still it hurts... any advice??

just stay focused on your baby and if you have you mom around lean on her she will be threre to support you
 
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April 18, 2007, 11:03 am PDT

Prego and sick a lot

I never thought that being pregnant meant that you would be sick almost all the time. I envy those who have great pregnancy's lucky them lol. I also have a disease called all-ports syndrome, which is slow deterioration of the kidneys and my oldest sister Michelle had it too. Although she had a transplant when she was very little. My dad gave her the kidney. I'm afraid that i might need a kidney transplant one day its scary to think about it. My pregnancy is considered high risk because of my disease. I am worried that it will either kill me or the baby. My favorite movie is steel magnolias and that movie makes me scared considering my health. Some woman with this problem are perfect with no complications i hope thats me... I am just worried and a little scared.
 
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April 18, 2007, 7:21 pm PDT

PRAY AND NEVER FEEL ALONE

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I never thought that being pregnant meant that you would be sick almost all the time. I envy those who have great pregnancy's lucky them lol. I also have a disease called all-ports syndrome, which is slow deterioration of the kidneys and my oldest sister Michelle had it too. Although she had a transplant when she was very little. My dad gave her the kidney. I'm afraid that i might need a kidney transplant one day its scary to think about it. My pregnancy is considered high risk because of my disease. I am worried that it will either kill me or the baby. My favorite movie is steel magnolias and that movie makes me scared considering my health. Some woman with this problem are perfect with no complications i hope thats me... I am just worried and a little scared.
 DON'T BE SCARED. I'M PREGNANT WITH CANCER AND TRIPLETS. GOD NEVER FGIVES US MORE THAN WE CAN HANDLE. I WILL PRAY FOR YOU AND YOUR UNBORN BUNDLE OF JOY. BABIES ARE SUCH A BLESSING. ALWAYS THINK TO YOURSELF THAT I AM  A CHILD OF GOD AND CARRYING ON MY LEGACY. YOU WILL BE FINE, OTHERWISE YOU WOULDN'T BE PREGNANT RIGHT AT THIS MOMENT.  WE WILL HANG IN THERE TOGETHER, EMAIL ME RAQUINO10171966@YAHOO.COM I WOULD BE HAPPY TO BE YOUR FRIEND AND WE COULD HELP EACH OTHER. TAKE CARE AND GOD LESS

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RACHEL
 
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April 23, 2007, 4:33 pm PDT

I'm Pregnant!

I'm 19 and last thanksgiving i found out i was pregnant....i am having a real difficult time because he is so unsupportive...he doesn't know how i feel and what i am going through.....and the most difficult part is that he is scared to get close to this child for t he longest time he wouldn't feel the baby kick or even get excited about it....i believe it is because about for years he lost his two year old to an accident...and court just started up again.....it kills me because i'm trying to support him....but i  need support to sometimes he seems so far away and i don't know what to do.....i'm due aug. 1 and the trial will be in july...i'm afraid that he will go into depression and quit his job again.....i don't know what to do???
 
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April 23, 2007, 11:32 pm PDT

I'm Pregnant!

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I'm 19 and last thanksgiving i found out i was pregnant....i am having a real difficult time because he is so unsupportive...he doesn't know how i feel and what i am going through.....and the most difficult part is that he is scared to get close to this child for t he longest time he wouldn't feel the baby kick or even get excited about it....i believe it is because about for years he lost his two year old to an accident...and court just started up again.....it kills me because i'm trying to support him....but i  need support to sometimes he seems so far away and i don't know what to do.....i'm due aug. 1 and the trial will be in july...i'm afraid that he will go into depression and quit his job again.....i don't know what to do???

Trial?
 
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April 26, 2007, 12:49 pm PDT

pregnant w/2nd set of twins & this is 3rd pregnancy

i found out bout three weeks ago that i was pregnant for the 3rd time.  i was happy. then a week after i found out i was expecting i found out that i was carrying twins! for the 2nd time i couldnt believe it but i am happy for everything. i am currently 8 weeks pregnant and i am enjoying it like i have in the past.  i am a single parent it doesnt bother me because i have a lot of family who is always there for me no matter what happens. after these two are born i will have a total of 5 children which i cant wait for! i am a  very busy mother let me tell you. anyways just wanted to share my story with you all. thanks and lata. 
 
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May 1, 2007, 8:06 am PDT

pregnant and stressin'

i am six months and one week pregnant.  My job has been so stressful since i started it about 2 months ago. My boss told me yesterday that if i dont do better they will let me go.  I have panic attacks to and from work all the time.  My stress level is way high at this point.  my doctor and i discussed me staying out of work when i was ready.  I called my doctor today and he faxed over a letter to my employer this morning.  I feel this relief off my shoulders.  the only problem is, is my pheoncee chris thinks i use my pregnancy as a crutch....i know this is going to effect our relationship.  He thinks im lazy.....im not lazy! im pregnant and emotionally a wreck.............any advice??????????????
 
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May 2, 2007, 11:09 am PDT

somebody please help me!

Im 6 weeks and 2 days pregnant and Im so stressed out I dont know why I even bother getting up out of bed in the morning. All i want to do is break everything, smash it to the ground. My ex (The father of the baby) is so pathetic through all this, telling me he demands a paternity test when weve been exclusive for 4 years, that he wants nothing to do with the child, he'll only pay "what the court deems necessary" (if i hear him say those words again I might just reach through the phone) Every time I even think about him, my stress levels go THROUGH THE ROOF. I'm trying to stay away from him but some phone calls are necessary... I know this is not healthy for me or for baby. I can't just "calm down". My mom is getting really frustruated with me and Im annoyed with all my friends, But Imreally starting to worry about how this will affect my pregnancy, now and after baby is here. if anyone can help me, please, Im desperate as is my child.
 
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May 7, 2007, 7:12 am PDT

2nd pregnancy

I am almost 35 weeks pregnant with my second child.  With Nicole, my first child, I had a wonderful pregnancy...no sickness, and i felt fit and healthy the whole time.  With this little guy, I have so many aches and pains.  I have a permanent "stich" in my right side.  Yesterday it got a lot worse, and I went into the hospital on a nurses recommendation.  They said that because it's my second child, my stomach muscles aren't as strong, and therefore aren't holding up as well as they did with my first.  Has anyone else had this problem?  It's just getting worse now, with no relief, and I am worried because I have to look after a 2 1/2 year old and take care of teh housework and stuff for another 5 weeks.
 
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