Topic : I Want to Adopt

We are the hugely blessed parents of a beautiful 5 year old son. He was adopted at birth and we still have a great relationship with his birthmom. When we discovered his special medical needs we were afraid we'd be unable to adopt again, but things have stablized now and we are all feeling the empty space meant for another child. We would love to adopt a toddler or pre-school aged child (our son keeps asking for a brother : ) Please let us know if you are aware of a situation that might fit our needs.

Blessings to you,

Tammy

Dr. Phil~

I absolutely love your show and how you help people each and every day.  Now, I hope you can help my husband and myself.  We are, unable as of yet, to get to get pregnant after almost 3 years of trying. I watched the show in which you helped set up the couple with a teen that was going to give up her child.  I hope that perhaps you could help us do the same.  Thank you for your time.

  It makes me sick and breaks my heart to hear everywhere and anywhere that so many unwanted babies being thrown away like yesterdays trash. I have wanted more than one child but the man upstairs, God, has other things in mind. I have one biological son Brett, three wonderful (legal step children),Tony, Heather and Jenna but by heart they are mine and claim to everyone they are mine. Their mother has nothing to due with them in years. I have wanted to try and have more but my heart fell in love with a wonderful man that has had a vasectomy and we cannot have any even though we desperately want more. The laws make it so expensive to adopt that people like us can't and so many unwanted babies waiting for perfectly good homes and families ready and able to raise them as their own, can't get adopted. These teens aren't willing to take them to be adopted they just get rid of them however they see fit for them. Please contact us we will adopt no questions asked nothing, just a happy, loving safe home. We have four, plus any and all neighborhood kids that want to come over and stay the weekends and/or play at any time possible. We love and take care of, at times, our Autistic 4 year old nephew, who is our joy! 

  Please if you are or know someone that is not ready or able to take care of or raise their baby before or after birth, Please contact us through this message board. We are a loving family in Ohio. 

  Dr. Phil any adviced would be greatly appreciated. 

  It really upsets me to hear about young girls who just get rid of their babies. I am a 27 year old and I can't have any of my own children but eventhough all of it  my husband is still with me. We really love kids but will never have our own. If they don't want them then they should at least try to find someone that will love and take care of the baby. Children don't come into this world on their own. When I read in the newpaper or see it on the tv I start to cry for the baby. All the children want is to be loved by someone that will love them. Dr. Phil please tell me what I can do.  

 It really irks me when ppl say they are choosing to adopt when they can't have any kids.  Choosing to adopt is when you can have have kids but are unselfish and decide to adopt.  Ppl who can't have kids who adopt have no other chose but adoption. 

k first i wanna say to those ppl writing on here to dr. phil that (as far as i know from what ive heard) he doesnt check these boards! write to him via letter and you'll have better luck. 

k i need some advice please. i dont think i wanna get married cuz i dont think i will meet the right person at least until im like 40 or 50 or even older. i've always really wanted to have kids though so having chlidren is a higher priority than getting married. 

so um do u think im crazy? is this a realistic future? ive heard adoption takes years and costs a lot of money. so if thats true, even if i do finally get to adopt wud i have any money left to give the child a happy childhood??? 

background info: im under 20, im a guy, im bi, im in university/college studying engineering first year, im volunteering for Big Brothers Big Sisters... 

please any advice would be good. thanks