Quote From: txgirl05Hi, this is my first time ever here. I'm 41 yrs. old and I have allowed my wieght to take total control over my life. I have not worked in over 3yrs. since I was laided off, and have no motivation on looking for a job. Everytime I see myself in the mirror I just want to die, I am so disqusted with myself. I have a great husband that supports me in every way as well as my boys. I do believe that this is something i have carried since my youth days, from being called ( baby huey, fatty, the blimpe from my own siblings, and through out my adult life some of my siblings have continued. Which I have distance myself from them. Although, I live in a positive enviroment at home, I have inbeld in my head that I cannot escape it. I am a healthy woman in every aspect and I do like to exercise. My down fall is in eating the right things. I feel that no matter how hard I try I just don't seem to lose the weight. . As I have grown older I retain alot of water, and really get swollen. So for now I am taking water pills and they seem to be helping some. Desperately need help!!!!!!!!!!!!! 
I am out of control too. I have tried and tried to lose weight but I always seem to fall off the track. I am 47 and have never posted a message on a bulletin board but I need to do something to change my lifestyle. I think that we really need to look deep down in our inner selves and ponder the feeling we have. I have read so many articles and books about weight loss but never seem to apply the information in them long enough to get results. Is it an excuse or is it easier to do nothing and rationalize failure by saying I tried but it was too hard.
You need to believe in yourself and know that you have the power to change your lifestyle for the better. You indicated you have a supporting family, use them for support. Make small deliberate changes to get control.
So what are you going to do today to start that change? I am going to read the first chapter of Dr. Phil’s book and exercise for 30 minutes. I know it will be the first step in the right direction. If I can do it so can you. Believe in yourself and let me know what you did to start that change. Good Luck.