Topic : 07/13 Online Dating

From even reading some of these quotes about on line dating, i am getting that some of these people out of a life less marriage, bored, and so forth have showed why it can be difficult to meet a man or woman who would be a good match, for some are just filling in their time for their ( Not ) as I will say will power to leave the relationship that should not continue.  

Shame on them, for they are the ones who make it hard for those who are really not attached.  

Other than that, like life, you will meet the good with the bad, and like life hopefully, we can weed the bad out, and tell them to get lost, for they are they are not worth our time and trouble.  

Lucky for time, and patience, if we seek hard enough, and long enough, lady luck will follow us, for such positive thinking, is always a winner.  

I have been in the personal ads for many years on and off.  All I seem to meet is jerks, cheap guys or married men looking for side jobs. Then I decided to try on-line dating. I never got to meet any of them only through messaging eachother.  After about six e-mails from them, the truth comes out. You catch them in some sort of a lie or distorted image they gave themself to be. They seem to be all losers as well.  Dr. Phil, if all else fails what are single women supposed to do to meet a serious minded man looking for a decent, great girl?  I feel there are many of us women out there that need answers before we become old and gray and loose interest in the things that should always remain important to us. 

I am a  middle aged single gal who has tried one line dating. I must admit that I have run into some jerks.    One jerk e-mailed me to say that he was coming to my area to meet me and could he stay with me (not),  another one  got angry because I would not come to his home, and spend some "quality time" with him.  SCARY!!.  I bought  and read Dr. Phil's "Love Smart" .   I met the guy that I am currently dating online also.  He and I have a lot in common.  The 1st time we decided to meet,  we were at a local mall (I had two of my girl friends with me).  We had dinner and did the group thing at first.  Our first one on one date was at a concert!!  We had a blast.  We talk several times a week and go out regularly.  I have not introduced him to my son yet, I am not rushing it, but I feel that it is coming.  I am taking it slow and easy!! He is persuing me.  What a change!!  If he isn't the one, I am enjoying myself and have learned a lot about dating.  Thanks for "Love Smart"  It works!!   

I met the love of my life on Match.com.   He was completely honest online.  I liked him on the phone and in emails and when I met him, I was smitten completely.  I still am after nearly two years.   Was he the only one on Match who was honest?   No, I met three other wonderful men.   I still talk to one on a routine friendly basis.  Yes, there are some bad guys out there but come one!   I'd LOTS rather have someone turn me down online (Yes, I did have one guy tell me I was too fat for him) than in person at some bar or anywhere else. 

Anyway, I am a Match success story.    And you know how Dr. Phil says that a man is successful if his wife knows that she is better treated by her husband than any other woman in the room.   By that definition, my boyfriend is a great success.  I know that few women are treated better than I am by my boyfriend.   

Don't give up, ladies!   There are good men out there. 

It seems that men are in such a hurry to date that too many forget to even take time to get to know someone and ... become friends. I met nice people (on line) - Many of them were going too fast ...  I felt like telling some of them to get up and give their brain a rest!  - Some ... were in dreamland .... followed their own train of thoughts ...   

Anybody can be anything on line .... a dream ... people do not see themself they was they want to be and will not admit their wrongs !!!!   

My daughter met someone on line ... he was Mr. Wonderful - but, later found out  (after they got married of course) that he was a liar ... had alcohol problem .... was a control fricks, violent ... etc ...  had lots of problems ....He became a nightmare when she divorced him a year later ...   

The 2nd marriage - another Mrs. Wonderful - found on line !.... same thing happened... same pattern ... There was some good in him - BUT .... another alcoholic, an abuser .... she is now going through another divorce.....   

There are many fish in the ocean .... We need to first know who we are ... what we want, what we will accept -  What we are ready to put up with ....  We need not to be in a hurry! step back, observe and most of all pray to seek God's will!