Topic : Love Being Single

Wow.... That really does look like a sticky situation.... But look, I don’t know your boyfriend, so I can’t try predict what he is going to do.... but let’s think of why he hasn’t contacted you yet.... Maybe in order to call you he needs to dial some extension code to be able to call you from where he is..... But then he could ask around, right? ... hmmm....  Maybe he is just being a little careless and not thought that contacting you is at the top of his priority list, and maybe he IS going to come back... but that would just be weird, because I know for a fact that if you love someone, you will WANT to get hold of them and speak to them etc as soon as you can. Maybe he got stuck up in something and hasn’t had a chance to give you a call.... but then that takes me to my previous point, if you love someone, then you will WANT to get hold of them and speak to them etc as soon as you can, and you will always make a plan to get hold of that person.

Anyways, this guy seems really immature about the relationship, and though it might not be what you want to hear right now, I think that you should find yourself a MAN and not a BOY to make into your boyfriend.

If you have his dad’s phone number, then give him a call and see what he has to say... you really don’t have much to lose now.


Laterz... 

About two months ago, I found myself single again. I was scared at first but I quickly got over that. I have more time for myself, family and friends. Since the break-up I find myself in better shape and just plain happier. However, I am meeting allot of attractive guys, who are interested in starting a relationship. But I just don’t feel comfortable with settling down with just one guy right now. Don’t get me wrong, I want to be in a committed relationship, except I’m discovering for the first time how fun being single can be. My problem is that I’m scared I might be passing up Mr. Right. Am I being naive to think that I’ll continue meeting quality men? How do you know who is the right guy to settle down with?  

BTW: Happy New Years Everyone :o) 

lgostola, It seems to me that your boyfriend is just not interested anymore. I mean, no matter WHERE he is, if he wanted to get hold of you, he would make a plan. I think that you are just trying to make up excuses for him not calling you because you are scared of the harsh truth that he has just left and doesn’t plan on coming back. I know for a fact that if I loved a girl, I would definitely make a plan to speak to her, and he has been gone for a while now and you have not heard from him even once.  

Yes, there could be a million reasons explaining why he hasn’t called you, but like I said, if you really meant SO much to him, he would make a plan to reach you somehow. I’m sure he has your e-mail address? So why couldn’t he stop at an internet café and send u an email telling you where he is and what’s going on etc? This guy, in my opinion, isn’t the type of guy that will be able to lead a mature long serious relationship, and my recommendation to you is to find someone else and try get over this guy.  

Despite my opinion and what I think, I still hope that I am wrong and that he DOES come back to you etc.:)