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June 28, 2006, 11:37 am PDT
 Quote From: exadvisepl My cousin is with a man 45, she is 26. They are happier then pigs in you know. Our family was concerned but they have been together six years now, and as far as I am concerned, if they are happy then more power too them. Life is way too short to worry about age after your of legal concent. I also have a friend dateing a guy two months older then her daughter. It was hard for her at first, but she sees the bigger picture now too. My cousins mans has a son three months older then her and he's accepted her too.
Don't let everyones elses misgivings ruin your chance at happpiness. You only get to go around once in life and god doesn't say when your soul mate or potential partner was going to be born. They are out there, older, younger, or same age. Happiness is happiness where ever you find it. My ex was 10 years younger then me also. I am 44, and she is 34. We have a wonderful child together to. Best thing is to not let anyones thinking cloud your relationships. I believe that if your happy wit hit then go running with it also. Good luck. God Bless. |
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June 28, 2006, 11:47 am PDT
Hi all. My question is. I am a 44 year old man. I have been divorced twice. The first was a druggie, and I was not aware of this for a few years. She also cheated. My second was in it for the ride it seems, and dumped me for another man. She married 4 months afte the divorce was final. here in Nevada the time period for divorce is 5 weeks. I am scared to find another love for fear of being dumped again. I am a loving man, and care deeply for my mate. I put 150% into it, and live only for her. I am a shy man, and it's hard for me to see when a women makes a (move) on me. Maybe I have blocked it out for that same fear I don't know. I have two children. My oldest is 23 with my first grandson Alex. My youngest is going to be 11 in July. they are my life as we can understand that. I want to find a loving women that feel the same as I , but where do I start or where do I look. I do not go to the bars or out anymore so to seek a relationship, and to feel good aboiut hings in my heart is hard to think of right now. It has been over 2 years now. Any help or advice is welcome from guys, but mainly you females out there. I have not understood why love hurts so much. It's to be a life long high with your mate right? Randy in Gods country. |
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June 28, 2006, 5:41 pm PDT
Hello, again. I thought I'd post something so as to help you, for you helped me a lot. Carson City, is that where your kids live? My oldest is 21, youngest 17. I have my youngest (daughter at home with me)...Son's off to college, and my daughter will be next yr. Sorry, about your two divorces, that must be rough. But, you're still young and you'll meet someone. 3rd times the charm? You were smart though in taking your time. Do you go to church? I don't, (bad experience) but is there a 'siingle's group'? My brother-in-law lost his wife (my younger sister) to cancer, he's 50. She was only 42. He belongs to the church, and does all those activities. In the singles group, he says there's like 50 or so women, to 4 guys. (lucky guys huh?) They go and do things all the time. Perhaps, you would like to try that. They go to baseball games, dinners, and even going on a cruises. We live not too far from Vegas (200 miles or so), and stateline, laughlin so they go there as well. So, call up your local church and find out. He hasn't been ready, it's been 1 1/2 yrs., but he says he does have fun and it has helped. He says a lot of women are chasing after him...which he doesn't like (don't know why haha) but he's nice looking...I think just no one meets up to my sister...she was one of those types, that cared about her family so much...kind of traditional type, and she was very pretty. She was 42, but looked a lot younger. I think too you don't find many like her anymore..(except me, haha) Anyway, try that...and you don't necessarily have to go into with the thought 'of meeting someone', just being around others...they say at (our age) it gets harder and harder to find decent people. Although, I know their out there...and my brother-in-law says, a lot of women (want only one thing too, and it's S.. and Marriage) So, when I read somewhere on the boards, that men want S.. and women want the 'marriage', well I'm not sure about that in older women...(not that we're old or something) BUT, could be just the opposite...maybe, older women have been married and devoted themselves to their husbands, and kids, NOW it's THEIR turn...and they don't necessarily want the 'marriage' thing and perhaps want the S.. thing...I don't know my favorite show is "Sex in the City". My daughter first started watching it, and I said "how could you watch such a thing"...but, then I admit I got hooked...For me having S.., HAS TO BE ONLY with someone I love/or have said "I love you"...and then I would be committed to that relationship...in that book "he's just not into you", the author said he feels women should wait (I believe) 5 mos. or so, BEFORE having S.. with that person...because, IF a guy/man is willing to wait that long, he must care...that was from a 'male' perspective...maybe, IF women did that, they wouldn't get hurt as much...I don't know, just a thought...I person I think I most relate to is Carrie...BUT, for some reason people say I'm like a "Charlotte"...I guess, because she's the 'innocent' type...maybe, it's my fantasy to be more outgoing, and NOT so innocent...Another thing you may try, is go to a Barnes & Noble, if they have one there...I love going there, when I'm bored...I just like books, and I see men/women sitting all alone, all the time...Just for me, I try NOT to notice I guess...Anyway, I hope this helps...you'll be ok, when you get down just post a message and we ALL can help...take care, d |
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June 29, 2006, 9:11 am PDT
Quote From: linetrud I'm sorry but that's one thing that I wasn't be able to do is forgive, she has totally no respect for you. That's something she should have talked to you about, before acting. It would have been better for her to leave you, than play like that behing your back,....and you know what, I've been there and it's hard, because he did come back and ask forgiveness and as hard as it was I said no even though I still loved him,.... now I'm looking back and I'm every happy with my life, I have an awesome boyfriend and we have a baby girl. I can tell you one thing it was hard to trust again, but I know that he loves and respects me, Hold on you'll get through it, GOOD LUCK
ps,... were you giving her enough sex,.... because alot of girls need it alot. just a thought.... Hi. I have experiened this also. My first wife was caught, and after being divorced almost 20 years still denies it. My second with married 4 months after the divorce, and everyone tells me she was seeing someone to. I am not sure why they do this, but it has left me alone, and afraid of being cheated on even more today. I guess we need to look into who we are seeing ,and what there morales are. I think in my case things were comfortable after a few years, and we did not stimulate the relationship(s). Hang in there, and like myself be more careful when dating. I have not held a hand in over two years, and still have no desires to. Don't let this happen to you. Life has not been fun being single, but for now it's safer for my heart to be. Women can be hurtful, and for no good reasons. Hope this helps. |
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June 29, 2006, 9:37 am PDT
Quote From: dee0123 Hello, again. I thought I'd post something so as to help you, for you helped me a lot. Carson City, is that where your kids live? My oldest is 21, youngest 17. I have my youngest (daughter at home with me)...Son's off to college, and my daughter will be next yr. Sorry, about your two divorces, that must be rough. But, you're still young and you'll meet someone. 3rd times the charm? You were smart though in taking your time. Do you go to church? I don't, (bad experience) but is there a 'siingle's group'? My brother-in-law lost his wife (my younger sister) to cancer, he's 50. She was only 42. He belongs to the church, and does all those activities. In the singles group, he says there's like 50 or so women, to 4 guys. (lucky guys huh?) They go and do things all the time. Perhaps, you would like to try that. They go to baseball games, dinners, and even going on a cruises. We live not too far from Vegas (200 miles or so), and stateline, laughlin so they go there as well. So, call up your local church and find out. He hasn't been ready, it's been 1 1/2 yrs., but he says he does have fun and it has helped. He says a lot of women are chasing after him...which he doesn't like (don't know why haha) but he's nice looking...I think just no one meets up to my sister...she was one of those types, that cared about her family so much...kind of traditional type, and she was very pretty. She was 42, but looked a lot younger. I think too you don't find many like her anymore..(except me, haha) Anyway, try that...and you don't necessarily have to go into with the thought 'of meeting someone', just being around others...they say at (our age) it gets harder and harder to find decent people. Although, I know their out there...and my brother-in-law says, a lot of women (want only one thing too, and it's S.. and Marriage) So, when I read somewhere on the boards, that men want S.. and women want the 'marriage', well I'm not sure about that in older women...(not that we're old or something) BUT, could be just the opposite...maybe, older women have been married and devoted themselves to their husbands, and kids, NOW it's THEIR turn...and they don't necessarily want the 'marriage' thing and perhaps want the S.. thing...I don't know my favorite show is "Sex in the City". My daughter first started watching it, and I said "how could you watch such a thing"...but, then I admit I got hooked...For me having S.., HAS TO BE ONLY with someone I love/or have said "I love you"...and then I would be committed to that relationship...in that book "he's just not into you", the author said he feels women should wait (I believe) 5 mos. or so, BEFORE having S.. with that person...because, IF a guy/man is willing to wait that long, he must care...that was from a 'male' perspective...maybe, IF women did that, they wouldn't get hurt as much...I don't know, just a thought...I person I think I most relate to is Carrie...BUT, for some reason people say I'm like a "Charlotte"...I guess, because she's the 'innocent' type...maybe, it's my fantasy to be more outgoing, and NOT so innocent...Another thing you may try, is go to a Barnes & Noble, if they have one there...I love going there, when I'm bored...I just like books, and I see men/women sitting all alone, all the time...Just for me, I try NOT to notice I guess...Anyway, I hope this helps...you'll be ok, when you get down just post a message and we ALL can help...take care, d Hey thanks for the meassage D. I have been going to a church for 3 years now. I also have known they have a singles group to, but I am not into a meat market. I have heard some of these are, and I am not into just sex althought it sounds good at times. This church has helped me in a lot of ways. They have several other groups like divorce recovery, and others to. Being single it has been hard to afford going out to do things. My daughter ask me why we cannot do things. I tell her I have just one income, and her mother has two. Life has gotten easier this last few weeks so I am hoping I can do more things with her. Being a part time dad has made life hard for me also. I know there is a women out there for me, and someday I /we will meet. I am just not looking. My ex tells me I am hansome, and should not have a problem with dating, but the things she did after asking for the divorce has made it hard to trust. It's a long story so I will not get into that. I myself want to hear (i love you) to, but it sems it does not come from the heart much anymore. It also seems long term relationships are a thing from the past to. I get jealous sometimes seeing a couple out having fun or showing affection. I really miss the holding of hands, and cuddling to. Sure I am into sex at my age, but thats the bonus in a relationship with two people care for each other. I am 44 I do not know if I said that yet, but at times I feel younger, and after a hard day at work I feel older to. I seem to fall asleep a lot. Yeah the traditional type is me also. I believe on the old fashion type relationship. I feel it's a effort put out my both to make what we can out of our efforts, and to make or break the relationship. I love to treat my mate with love ,and some more. Sometimes in gifts to. Nothing like making a women happy to be with you you know. Anyway thanks for the message. I am feeling more like I can get into things with a women as time goes, but it's been a slow process so far. God Bless. Randy in Gods country |
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June 29, 2006, 5:56 pm PDT
Quote From: hobart7 Hey thanks for the meassage D. I have been going to a church for 3 years now. I also have known they have a singles group to, but I am not into a meat market. I have heard some of these are, and I am not into just sex althought it sounds good at times. This church has helped me in a lot of ways. They have several other groups like divorce recovery, and others to. Being single it has been hard to afford going out to do things. My daughter ask me why we cannot do things. I tell her I have just one income, and her mother has two. Life has gotten easier this last few weeks so I am hoping I can do more things with her. Being a part time dad has made life hard for me also. I know there is a women out there for me, and someday I /we will meet. I am just not looking. My ex tells me I am hansome, and should not have a problem with dating, but the things she did after asking for the divorce has made it hard to trust. It's a long story so I will not get into that. I myself want to hear (i love you) to, but it sems it does not come from the heart much anymore. It also seems long term relationships are a thing from the past to. I get jealous sometimes seeing a couple out having fun or showing affection. I really miss the holding of hands, and cuddling to. Sure I am into sex at my age, but thats the bonus in a relationship with two people care for each other. I am 44 I do not know if I said that yet, but at times I feel younger, and after a hard day at work I feel older to. I seem to fall asleep a lot. Yeah the traditional type is me also. I believe on the old fashion type relationship. I feel it's a effort put out my both to make what we can out of our efforts, and to make or break the relationship. I love to treat my mate with love ,and some more. Sometimes in gifts to. Nothing like making a women happy to be with you you know. Anyway thanks for the message. I am feeling more like I can get into things with a women as time goes, but it's been a slow process so far. God Bless. Randy in Gods country Hello. I think it's better to NOT be looking for someone, but to let it happen naturally. Go and do things that YOU like. Spend time with your daughter. You said you don't like being single? Why is that? I mean, you've been married twice, isn't it kinda good for a change to be single? The dating thing is strange...I mean, I for one don't think it's necessary to 'spend a lot' on a date. Just a dinner, is great! I never wanted to make a man feel uncomfortable, about what to do on a first date or second, etc. One first date, I went roller skating...(strange I know). For me, it's ALL about that person I'm with, not how much he spent. I also, believe in going dutch sometimes...(on the 2nd date)..OR sometimes, I would like to even pay...I'd like to come up with something, and it's MY treat...On a date, I just like doing something where we both can talk a lot, to get to know one another...It's really understandable how scary it would be for you, especially after what you've gone through...SO, that's good you took things slow...But, it sounds like you're ready now...Just try and be yourself, take things slow, and just go out and ENJOY yourself...not going in thinking it HAS TO be serious...Try and do what's interesting to YOU, (your hobbies, interests, inc.) perhaps, there's a woman that likes the same things...It's a wierd thing reading these posts, because it's seems younger guys, meet women that seem to ONLY want marriage...but, younger men don't?? I think, from what my brother-in-law says, older women just want companionship and perhaps S.. That's a BIG switch (I think) I know for me, when I was younger, I didn't want marriage...I saw my mom, and I didn't want that...But, after being in a relationship for 6 yrs., I did...I guess, I was older and ready...I haven't change too much, I WANT the relationship, more than the S.. I wonder why older women, want the S.. more??? I think it's just TOO complicated!! Because, FOR ME I have to be IN LOVE, and have said/heard the "I love You's"....BEFORE, S.. Another thing is, I use to think living together was ok...But, now that I'm older, I don't think I would want...just wierd, how we think when we're young and now older...My son lives with his g/f. That's ok, I'm not against it...People, can say it's a good idea, so you know what one another's like, BEFORE the big step of marriage...But, I'm not sure, because when you live with someone, it all can be SO GREAT, because it's new...Then, once you get married their true colors can show later on...I think one can date, go away on weekends, vacations, and spend the weekends/nights together and get to know one another pretty well...that way...I just don't think I'd like to live with someone...Did your last wife, just fall out of love with you?? How long were you married? Couldn't go to counseling? Do you go to the divorce recovery group? Please don't worry about the 'money' thing when asking someone out. IF a woman likes you, it won't matter...and IF it does, well she's not worth it then...but, for the first date, perhaps a nice dinner would be GREAT! Then, after that more casual things, depending on what you and your date likes to do...I know for me, I like dinners...the first dates are very nervousy, SOOOO if I should put down what I would like this would be it....(and I'm about your age too haha)
1. I LOVE the mountains...SO, I would love to be taken there, and perhaps hit up a nice place for a dinner...walks around a lake...look through shops...
2. I also LOVE the beach...So, that's another great place to be taken...I know the restaurants are expensive, SO I would suggest a picnic or sorts...walks along the beach at sunset...(but you don't live near the beach I know)
3. I LOVE picnics, so anywhere nice would be FUN!! sometimes, going out to a restaurant could be quite nerve nacking...SO, perhaps for the FIRST date I would suggest somewhere relaxing and casual...picnic/mountain thing...that why both can get lots of talking in...I LOVE talking haha
4. I also, like sporting events...baseball games...so, anywhere that you BOTH can feel comfortable, and get a chance to talk a lot... |
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June 30, 2006, 5:59 am PDT
As soon as I saw my partner I knew we had something special. From the first time we went out we decided to take things slow as he came straight out of another relationship. Although that never happened - within 3 months I had moved in with him, & at 15 months we were engaged. We have now been engaged for 6 months & things are only just going back to the way we were. From the time we got engaged we have fought & argued & have a major fight at least once a month. We both love each other, a lot, and there isnt a doubt in my mind that he is the one I am going to marry. But he just spung it on me, that he doesnt regret getting engaged at all, but doesnt want to ruin our relationship by getting married. He tells me that if getting engaged has pushed it to the edge imagine what getting married would do? He says it isnt that he "never" wants to get married, he just doesnt want to right now when we are just getting back on track... Does marriage really ruin a relationship? |
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June 30, 2006, 11:58 am PDT
Quote From: dee0123 Hello. I think it's better to NOT be looking for someone, but to let it happen naturally. Go and do things that YOU like. Spend time with your daughter. You said you don't like being single? Why is that? I mean, you've been married twice, isn't it kinda good for a change to be single? The dating thing is strange...I mean, I for one don't think it's necessary to 'spend a lot' on a date. Just a dinner, is great! I never wanted to make a man feel uncomfortable, about what to do on a first date or second, etc. One first date, I went roller skating...(strange I know). For me, it's ALL about that person I'm with, not how much he spent. I also, believe in going dutch sometimes...(on the 2nd date)..OR sometimes, I would like to even pay...I'd like to come up with something, and it's MY treat...On a date, I just like doing something where we both can talk a lot, to get to know one another...It's really understandable how scary it would be for you, especially after what you've gone through...SO, that's good you took things slow...But, it sounds like you're ready now...Just try and be yourself, take things slow, and just go out and ENJOY yourself...not going in thinking it HAS TO be serious...Try and do what's interesting to YOU, (your hobbies, interests, inc.) perhaps, there's a woman that likes the same things...It's a wierd thing reading these posts, because it's seems younger guys, meet women that seem to ONLY want marriage...but, younger men don't?? I think, from what my brother-in-law says, older women just want companionship and perhaps S.. That's a BIG switch (I think) I know for me, when I was younger, I didn't want marriage...I saw my mom, and I didn't want that...But, after being in a relationship for 6 yrs., I did...I guess, I was older and ready...I haven't change too much, I WANT the relationship, more than the S.. I wonder why older women, want the S.. more??? I think it's just TOO complicated!! Because, FOR ME I have to be IN LOVE, and have said/heard the "I love You's"....BEFORE, S.. Another thing is, I use to think living together was ok...But, now that I'm older, I don't think I would want...just wierd, how we think when we're young and now older...My son lives with his g/f. That's ok, I'm not against it...People, can say it's a good idea, so you know what one another's like, BEFORE the big step of marriage...But, I'm not sure, because when you live with someone, it all can be SO GREAT, because it's new...Then, once you get married their true colors can show later on...I think one can date, go away on weekends, vacations, and spend the weekends/nights together and get to know one another pretty well...that way...I just don't think I'd like to live with someone...Did your last wife, just fall out of love with you?? How long were you married? Couldn't go to counseling? Do you go to the divorce recovery group? Please don't worry about the 'money' thing when asking someone out. IF a woman likes you, it won't matter...and IF it does, well she's not worth it then...but, for the first date, perhaps a nice dinner would be GREAT! Then, after that more casual things, depending on what you and your date likes to do...I know for me, I like dinners...the first dates are very nervousy, SOOOO if I should put down what I would like this would be it....(and I'm about your age too haha)
1. I LOVE the mountains...SO, I would love to be taken there, and perhaps hit up a nice place for a dinner...walks around a lake...look through shops...
2. I also LOVE the beach...So, that's another great place to be taken...I know the restaurants are expensive, SO I would suggest a picnic or sorts...walks along the beach at sunset...(but you don't live near the beach I know)
3. I LOVE picnics, so anywhere nice would be FUN!! sometimes, going out to a restaurant could be quite nerve nacking...SO, perhaps for the FIRST date I would suggest somewhere relaxing and casual...picnic/mountain thing...that why both can get lots of talking in...I LOVE talking haha
4. I also, like sporting events...baseball games...so, anywhere that you BOTH can feel comfortable, and get a chance to talk a lot... Hello D. Nice to see your reply. I said I do not like being single because I am just sitting here most of the time. Mostly thinking that if I went out someone will see me. Not sure really why that is, but I was with my ex for 11 or 12 years, and married for 8 or 9. Not sure of dates as you can see. I remember when I was 18. This lovley women of 35 had a sexual drive like a race car. Us boys/men at that age have a sexual drive that last. I am trying to sound as clean as possible without being grapfic. that is what attracts older women to younger men most of the time I was told. I may have said I am ready to date, and yes I do feel I am. I have made a joke of sasying a few times that I am looking for a sugar momma, but I am not built that way. I havae always ben a one women man, and thats enough for me to handle. Cheating is not right, and I would not do that to my mate. I am looking for afriend/g/f that has no hurry to make the jump into changing me to her needs or twist me to her liking as afar a clothes or the like. My only interest right now is collecting Tonka type toys (all metal) ones, and displaying them on my shelfs. A second childhood I really love to look at. I am the type to believe that being intereted in another would some where lead to the s word before being married or hearing the words I love you. It's a natural attraction or desire that when you feel really into a person you want to reach to more avenues of interest with him/her. Any way it's a natural need I guess. I forgot to say in the last message that my oldest is in Washington St. trying to proveto herself that she has to depend on herself, and not me. She has my 5 year old grandson with her whitch I miss dearly. My youngest Ashley goes to Cal, and Oregon during the summers, and I also miss her right now. My ex, and I lived together for 3 years before we married, and Ashley came along in 2 1/2 years. We married when she was 6 months old. here in Carson City or rather at Lake Tahoe. That lake is a lot of the reason I say Gods country. It is 11 miles wide, and 22 miles long. It takes 4 hours to drive arouind it making that alone a nice date. The bluest , and clearest water you have ever seen! As for my ex. She I guess fell out of love with me 3 years before the divorce. I started noticing things like her saying mean things to me for no reason. I have A.D.D, and to remember things has been really a challange at times for me. I would get bad stomuch aches when I knew she was going to be home soon.I have tried to get her to copunceling, but I guess she felt nothing was wrong I guess. I will never know. She told me one time I made her skin crawl, and that is some os the reason I am having a hard time getting out. I have no idea whay she said that? I have been to the divorce recovery 3 times, and plan on one more time. I am into hiking more, but still new with that. Lake tahoe has wonderful beaches. There are several places there that are so pretty it makes you want to stay for a while to. I love to go to monster truck, and to N.A.S.C.A.R. tracks when I can. Not much into basebal, but I do see them on sometimes. I like to take the mutually used Jet Ski to the lakes during the summers, and get wet, and tanned. Lots of camping if time allows. I think living together is ok. It allows you to see how trhe other half lives in more private details compared to just the surfaces. I thank you for these messages. They have had me thinking, and wanting to do things more. Have a happy 4th weekday, and be safe. Randy in you know where. |
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July 4, 2006, 4:27 pm PDT
hello everyone. i am new at this but I was wondering if there is anyone in the same boat as me or has eperienced something similar...
I am engaged to a man i have been with for 3 years and we were supposed to get married in 2 months. we have pushed our wedding back because there is something that isnt right with us anymore. we arent the same as we used to be. we seemed to have lost that spark to where its hard for us to share how much we love each other by doingthe small stuff and being able to cuddle in bed for hours on end. nowadays we sit in our bedroom and dont know what to do with ourselves because its just so akaward now. We talked about wanting to light that spark again and now it seems as if talking about it made the posibillity of it coming back worse. HELP!!!!!!!! |
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July 6, 2006, 9:23 pm PDT
I am 23 years old and I have been with my boyfriend for 4 years. We are really happy and have no problems. We are ready for marraige but we are still in college and ahve no money for a wedding. i come from a large familya nd would hate to not invite everyone. Well, a few months back i discovered the website myspace.com. i was having a balst talking to old friends and all. Well, my boyfriend decided to get a page also. In highschool he had a highschool sweetheart for like 3 years i guess. She was brought up when we first got togetehr b/c his fmaily knew her well. when i met his friends they would ask "what happen to??"...yep. Ne ways, i didn't bother me b/c we were happy and b/c she did him wrong. and He really cut her out. Well, he got his webpage and his friends continued to ask for her. after awhile it stopped ..when they saw that he was ahppy and that he was marrying me. yay! recently, his ex girlfriend got one too..this is where it starts...there was a chain letter that said to post your old memories on the comments page....well, on his page someone mentioned his ex...i went behind there and wrote "i'm tired of hearing of her...can we change the subject"....ne ways...hsi friend apologized for bringing her up..she said it was disrespectful towrds me.....Well...........his ex vistied his page and saw that i wrote that and started bragging to her friends that "she bigs me" and that i can't get over her....okay? no one cares about her. we have our own life...just cause of one comment, she think the our world revolves around her. well, i ahd left it alone until after a week, i saw more comments of me....she was even using my name......i was mad. I emailed her politely, introduced myslef, and told her to stop. told her if she had coments to email me and not to post them. She returned back with hostel words saying that I need to get over her and stop being in her business....we had an email war..it was bad...i just told her to get ober it and to leave me alone...she played the innocent victim. My boyfriend tells me that she always wanted attention..and tahts what she got. I emailed her friends more and told her our business thru comments............well, after a month......she still going at it....and I stop alonggggg time ago....it makes me so mad b/c she is getting married in a few months....is she not over him??? what makes it worst is that their high shcool friends, were not there when they broke up and they think they are still together..so they still get comments like.."what happen" I thought yall were gonn also forver" My noyfriend just laughs and syas its highs chool stuff....it deosn't bother him, he says he lovs me too much, and he has better priorities to think of..he is true and right......Ant advice..sorry to messy....its late lissie0927@hotmail.com |
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