Topic : 07/03 Big Love

Ok...i watched this show because, i myself am a BBW....and you know what...all those ignorant people out there, like that twin that said that all big women are sloppy, and they stink, just has never been with a good woman before....i am a beautiful woman, and not vain, just stating the facts, i love myself, and think that i am a great catch!...for all you men out there that want to know what a good woman feels like.....come over baby and I'll show you!!......and if you are ever in Tucson, AZ...then look me up!!

Who are these people???  First let me start by saying that I have been overweight all of my adult life.  At the age of 30, I am currently around 270 pounds.  Roughly 80 pounds lighter than I was this time last year.  My highest weight was about 377, at the age of 27.  Even at that weight I could NEVER be accused of smelling bad, or being sloppy!  Funny thing is, when I was coming up as a child, my mother was always on me about being neat and clean.  In my world, she made me bathe way too much, and I didn't want to iron EVERYTHING I wore!  She seemed really, what I would call at my current age, anal retentive.  She said that these 2 things were always a must because people looked for things to say about fat people.  And boy was she right!  After seeing the show, and hearing the comments that were made, I'm thankful that my mother instilled that in me.  Its sad that people can be, and are so stereotypical.  As a big woman, I've never dealt with big men.  That doesn't mean that I wouldn't, because personality and confidence are everything....just not my preference.  But its one thing to have a personal preference, and another to just be downright ignorant.

I have never did this before but after watching todays show I just had too..Big women are almost the norm anymore we are no longer just sitting on the side watching life go by..we deserve to be treated just like anyone esle reguardless of our size..we are holding down jobs and having families and even though I am a bbw I am in great health..No high blood pressure or high cholestrol or diabetes...Yes I know this doesn't  mean it can happen but it also can happen to skinny people. I am a very active person and am not a lazy fat person...some of our problems come from hereidty not just overeating like some would think ...Please this is the 21 century wake up world treat us as humans and not judge us on our size..Who are we ,anyways to judge anyone on size ? and if we chose to be with a skinny person or a fat person its out chioce not yours ...we are the ones who have to live our life not you..so give it a break will ya..so please don't judge me and I wont judge you..

This post is in response to the episode big love on 07/03/07...... there was a guest on your show by the name of Paul I believe, who said that big people were an embarassment, disgusting and smelly.  Wow! I was more than upset with his comments.  I am a big woman and I can't believe that of all the things I've had to deal with in my life that someone would actually go on national television and make such a pompus remark.  This guy has to be joking.  I am not the type of person to stoop to putting people down, but he's not on the top ten list of good looking men in America. I can't believe that he even had the nerve to try and tell his brother who he could date.  The nerve of him to say that his brother dating  a bbw would bring disgrace to their family.  I think he did a great job of that by making such stupid comments on a national t.v. show.  I would love the chance to meet this man and let him smell me to know that size has nothing to to with hygiene.  This guy needs to find his way to the "Get a Life Lane" real quick........please officers let him run every red light and stop sign.....he needs help FAST!!!!!

i am not majorly thin nor am i huge but i am accepting who i am as i was made and working with it and NO ONE has the right to make anyone feel less than dispite their preferences!

I would love to meet a guy like Phill...I think his brother is just jelous because Phill is the hot one... I hope he went home and watched the show so he could see what an ass he made of himself..

I would love to chat with him myself...