Topic : 08/08 Weddings Gone Bad

I watched this show and I thought it was a very good show. Think job Phil did a very good job. But, there is one thing that really does bother me.  The wife on the first couple on the show, said that her husband hit her at the wedding while he was drunk. Plus he pushed her dad up against the wall  and hit the best man. Dr. Phil asked him if he got drunk all of the time.  He said that this was the first time he had ever got this drunk. This was the last thing he said about his drinking. I am not for certain. But, I accendently hit my wife and she never did for give me. I was very drunk at this time also. So, I am wondering if this is really why she could not for give her husband. I found out that we did not have that much sex after this either. She even said that she did not feel like having sex. So, mybe the reason why. Is that she was to scared of her husband to have any type of sex. Still am very worried about this couple. Just hope every thing works out all right. But I really don't think it will. Because, I think they really do need to get to the bottom of this.

Not sure if Dr. Phil reads this. But if he does. I sure wish he would write back to me. To let me know what he thinks.  Oh, They say that a person  can't remember any thing when he is drunk. Well, I think this is a bounce of bullshit. Because, I use to get drunk all of the time and I still remember everything, I ever did. So, please don't tell me that this person, can't remember hitting his wife and acting like a jerk at this wedding.  Mybe, he just wanted to hit his wife and mybe he did not like her dad, so he just went after him also. A person never knows. What a person is really thinking while he is drunk any ways.

This will be me when I get married... so I'm going to provide everyone with a camera. 

When your young married couples all felt it was the worst thing in their lives. My first thought is they are young and don't know what horrifying things are out there. Like you said burn victims. In our family we got one of those phone calls you feel only happens to someone else. Your family members have been in and accident and both died. They need to realize that they have each other and their love and move on. Of course I know you realize that. Just a comment.

Thanks Karen

  The first thing that hit me after it was clear that he never got that drunk before or since is.....did he have to get that drunk to go through with the wedding?  I am surprised no one brought this issue up during the show.  That is the FIRST thing I would have asked him.   Sharon