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Topic : 09/05 Family Follow-up

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Created on : Friday, August 31, 2007, 10:20:09 am
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Dr. Phil checks back in with Christy and Stacy, two squabbling sisters who captivated viewers and lit up the message boards! Christy thinks Stacy’s husband is a pedophile, and she reported them both to Child Protective Services for physical abuse and allegedly downloading child porn. The drama continued after the show. Find out what happened when the women returned home. Then, Christy and her husband, Alan, say the previous show was one-sided and portrayed them in a negative light. Dr. Phil gives the disgruntled guests a chance to air their grievances, but will Christy be appeased? And, Stacy’s children say their aunt’s allegations have turned their lives upside down. Hear why the youngest kids say they live in constant fear. Plus, both sisters take a four-hour polygraph test to see who’s really telling the truth. Tell us what you think!

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September 5, 2007, 1:32 pm CDT

wow

This is just my opinion,  but i think if in fact this was true that the children were being abused then the sister would be doing theses kids a favor........but it is CLEAR that those kids are completley safe. i think that the crazy sister needs to back off......those are not her kids and she is being totally out of line.....she needs to get a life of her own and stay out of her sisters and her kids lives for ever....she is putting those kids through so much trama.....and it is not doing anything but damage......if she thinks she is helping those kids in anyway....she is seriously wrong!!! my prayers are with the kids and there family......dont worrie children it will all come out in the wash!!
 
September 5, 2007, 1:33 pm CDT

09/05 Family Follow-up

 If Christy thinks for one second that she can bully ANYONE by going on Dr. Phil and complaining about 'the messages on the message board, THINK AGAIN!  I'm even MORE convinced that Christy is dead wrong! She REALLY needs some councelling! DR. Phil did a marvelous job of being the voice of reason.My advice to Stacey is, to get as far away from her sister as possible and never look back! There is NOTHING any of us can say to Christy to dent her thick skull. I am SO CONVINCED she is wrong that I say this before seeing the results of the polygraph test.
 
September 5, 2007, 1:34 pm CDT

Jealous Christy

Well I think Christy is jealous of Stacy. Christy made all of those things to make her sister look bad. My sister did the same things to me. But the only one that looks bad is her for saying things that aren't true. My sister said thing about my husband like Christy said about Stacy's husband. Like sexual abuse the kids and child porn on the compute. I don't know why sisters do that to sisters but they do. My sister is the oldest. I think part of it is because of jealous. I really do believe my sister is so jealous of me. I have a great life. I have 5 beautiful, healthy children and one great husband. And i think that is what happen with Christy and Stacy. The only thing i can tell Stacy to do is leave Christy alone. Don't talk to her, don't call, don't do anything to or for her. It will hurt but you do what you got to do to make your like better and work for you. And if that means kicking your family members out of your live then so be it.. They might realize what they have done and make up with you.  Also Christy needs to stop and look at what she has done. Not only to her sister but to the children. No one ever think of the children.. Christy needs to grow up and get her own life. And leave her sister's life alone. And if this upset you Christy, I am sorry. I only watch 20 minutes of the show, and saw this.. Christy grow up!!!!! 
 
September 5, 2007, 1:36 pm CDT

no matter what child abuse is wrong

I am watching the show now. If this is true and they have abused there children i applaud you for getting involved.   however you attacking dr phil does not help your case.  if it is not the case you are basically tearing your family appart i would just think about what i am doing.  if you are making things up  to get back at your family for what ever reason you do need help. however if you are correct i am glad som eone is looking out for the kids.  there are so many out there that don't have someone that cares. 

 

However going after dr phil doesn't help anything

 
September 5, 2007, 1:38 pm CDT

Crazy sister

I think that after all of this christy needs to apoligize to that familly! im am so angry and very upset with the way that chtisty is makin the family go through all of this. I think that this is her way of getting back at her sister for supposably abusing her when she was younger. She is mentally stuck in the past that she forgets that that was the past we are in the future now so im sorry but get over it LADY!!!!!!!!!!
 
September 5, 2007, 1:39 pm CDT

No one knows...

     No one knows if Christy is telling the truth.  No one knows if she just believes what she is saying.  What I see with my own eyes though, are well adjusted children that just want their aunt to mind her own business.  She cannot be helping these children by dragging their fathers name through the mud.  As stated in a previous post, even if someone is innocent, if a accusatory finger is pointed when it comes to pedophilia and or child abuse,  the damage is done. There is NO eraser for that.  I hope that Stacy and her family will stay banded together with love, trust, support, and respect.  There is nothing better than being able to face the world with the united front that is FAMILY.  God Bless Stacy and Family 

 
September 5, 2007, 1:39 pm CDT

09/05 Family Follow-up

I am sorry but I think she distroyed her sisters family. I think she is a very mean person and I also thnk she wants her sisters husband for her self. She really needs to get over herself
 
September 5, 2007, 1:42 pm CDT

family obsessions

I have a brother-in-law who was poisoned by lead paint when he was trying to remodel his son's bedroom in a 100 yr old home.

I have a husband that is severly allergic to mold.

I have a mother-in-law that was violently sea sick once.

She obsesses about being sea sick, my brother-in-law obsesses about lead poisoning, my husband obsesses about mold. They alter their lives based on these obsessons.

I believe the accusative sister is stuck with an anti-abuse obsession. I believe her heart is in the right place and she has good intentions but her obsession has her seeing villians that aren't there.

It took me a long time for me to break the thought process that had me worry about every little girl I ever saw with her father. I had to focus on her face and behavior to see she was happy and her body language was trusting for me to relax.

I think the only way this situation will ever be resolved would be for the sister to get the anti-phobia counseling to help her stop obsessing about her greatest fear.

It's almost like she's stuck stalking the ghost of her past abuser and she sees his face super imposed on every man with daughters.

Please extend to this woman the best in counsellng to help her be freed from the obsessive nightmare that scares her 24/7. Help her discover what a "normal" relaxed, happy, trusting life feels like.
 
September 5, 2007, 1:44 pm CDT

False Memory Syndrome

It is so clear to me that Christi has FMS.  She really believes this.  The way she talks about her childhood abuse and the passion she has about the "abuse" and the determination with which she pounds her sister to believe her reminds me of me during the late '80's as well as every member of my group therapy that accused family members for hideous actions.  Thank God I got good counseling and have realized the "abuse" didn't happen.  Sad part is I had plenty of pain to work with but my therapist always wanted to search "deeper" for hidden abuse.  Dr. Phil, please tell Christi to contact the False Memory Syndrome Foundation in Philadelphia.  They can hook her up with some very creditable doctors who know how to deal with this problem.

 

Signed, been there

 
September 5, 2007, 1:48 pm CDT

09/05 Family Follow-up

I can't believe Christy. I still can't figure out why she feels a need to try and ruin her sisters life. Not only that but her family's life. I think she obviously is A) Jealous of her sister and the life she has B) Is completely bored with her own life. and C) Absolutely CRAZY. and how about... she just understands she is WRONG. COMPLETELY WRONG. hah and the lie detectors just proved it. Get on with your life!!!!!!!!

 
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