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September 2, 2007, 10:17 am PDT
The Ex factor?? bad news
There are way to many times we (women related to this post) are taken in by men who use us, sociopath's personality and learn to act by watching other people! that was my husband, I should have seen the signs, but I realize the old saying of; " we shouldn't should on ourselves!" I was beaten after about 12 years of knowing this man, well I thought I knew him, he literally broke my back and nearly murdered me in my own kitchen, we had been married for about 10 years!!! I realize now that he played at being a concerned person, in our marriage, the quiet personality, could not make conversation with anyone! He was power hungry and worked in a law enforcement department of JJ system! That was what was important to him, that and buying a badge that looked like a State Trooper's yet the words on it stated; "youth specialist!" but he flashed that all the time, power and control, he held his rage, blamed other incidents of his rage that I would see onto his father, telling me his anger was at his father telling me I was incapable of understanding a sociopath?? he was correct, I didn't understand and never will! I asked many times for him to talk to someone, or come for a walk anything to relieve some of the stress, well I thought was stress, he did nothing but show up to work the night shift, no lawn care, no house repair, lucky if he put in a screw; obsessive disorder, would not throw away anything, papers all over, kicked the dog for chewing up magazines once, when the dog was still a pup form the pound, I protected the dog, I was able to then! I am a kind caring person, who was taken advantage of, I was Blessed by God to be alive and walking, he nearly broke my neck, he did cause C4 to press toward my spinal cord, he also tried to strangle me, and fractured my spine, a piece or pieces of bone lodged into a nerve root, I was using a walker due to recently having a disc removed; so basically he beat up and nearly killed an invalid at the time! 2 days before Thanksgiving of 2005; I had married this person, a second marriage, the first was verbal abuse, then found out later he molested my daughters; I was never going to marry again, well 9 years between marriages I did it again, I am once againhappy being alone with my family and pets; but I suffer with permanent nerve pain from the assault! When I offered my oral statement in Court, he took a "plea agreement" there were about 15 so called men, before my husband, all for domestic violence! I guess I should say COWARDS instead of men, as cowards beat on the weaker beings, real men love their wives! Leave an abusive relationship as fast as you can, VIOLENCE is a horror no one should ever put up with!
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What do you do when your ex is still in the picture and wreaking havoc? Louise says she broke up with Mike two months ago because he choked her, threw chairs at her, and even threatened to throw their infant son over a fence. Mike says anger just runs in the family, and he wants Louise to take him back but another ex of Mike’s has a warning for Louise. Shannon says she wants to expose Mike for the cruel man he really is. Mike says Shannon is a liar and an unfit mother. When Dr. Phil digs deeper into the story, you won’t believe the claims Shannon makes. Plus, what did Mike confess to Louise that has Dr. Phil concerned for the children? As allegations of abuse, threats and theft fly, Dr. Phil tries to make sense of these strained relationships. Share your thoughts, join the discussion.
