Topic : 01/25 Secrets in the Suburbs

The description of this show says most of the "Swingers" are middle class people......that might be true, but they are "low lifes".  This lifestyle is just so wrong in so many ways, and as always has to affect children of these marriages.  What kind of commitments to a marriage/family bond  are they learning from their parents? If this guy think's his behavior is "normal" is he dead wrong.....he can justify his actions by saying that, but it's still not the norm. 

OMG!!!!!

UNBELIEVABLE!!!!

I know that this type of thing has been going on for years.....but.....OMG!!!!!

YUCKY, NASTY,DIRTY PEOPLE....period.

   I noticed that each of these couples didn't start the practice of swinging until they got married. That alone speaks for their lack of commitment. Why get married if you are not sure that the person you are marrying is the only person you want and need. Swinging is the need for self gratification, which would indicate that your mate is unable to satisfy your needs. One thing that stood out to me was that the guy said that he enjoyed watching his wife with other men because he could stand back and watch her reactions, her movements and the look of satisfaction on her face. Newsflash!!! You did not put that look of satisfaction on her face, someone else did. You should be asking yourself if you measure up to the one who made her feel that way. Obviously she's asking herself those questions when you're with another woman. Here's a trick you might try.... buy a video camera. Videotape your sessions with her, then you can watch her look of satisfaction with YOU all day long. Better yet, mirror the walls.... In any case, keep it all to yourself.  A man told his woman a few years back that he wanted to try something new and "strange", she told him to "buy a wig, because that's as strange as it gets in her bedroom. In my marriage, we keep it fresh with role play and spontaneity. Sometimes, the only thing needed to spice up the bedroom is creativity.

First of all, I have been happily married for 30 yrs.  My husband and I have three amazing children, ages 21, 26, and 28, who are thriving in society and have good wholesome moral beliefs and standards.  The very thought of what is referred to in our society as a "threesome" disgusts me to no end.  What woman in her right mind would want to watch her husband engage in any form of sex with someone else?  Sex is an important part of a happy and fulfilling marriage, but is something that should be sacred, respected, and shared between only the two of you.  Call me old fashioned, but what ever happened to loyalty, faithfulness, respect, and the ability to be content with having sex with ONE person?  I would be the first to agree that sex should be spontaneous, creative (not perverted), and give pleasure to both, however, it is something that two people "in love" share together, not something that you share with a perfect stranger, and not something degrading.  One last thought, I thank God that my husband is who he is, but if he so much as ever mentioned "threesome" to me (which I would stake my life on the fact that he would never do), he would be out the door faster than you can blink! bottom line!