Topic : 12/25 Parent Trap

 Nothing is done is secret that stays a secret. You cannot lie about relationships and children. You will be found out eventually. A woman who knowingly deceives about the father of her child has cheated two men. Will she be penalized for it. Probably not. If a divorce happens she will still get the child support. In other words she has free reign to commit fraud and the law does nothing about it. In fact, it usually supports her.

Likewise if a man wins custody of his children. You know he's been through hell and back just to get them; then.  If a man does get child support will he get it from the woman, Probably not. I've yet to see a man in this county ever draw a penny and no the prosecutor will not put her in jail or garnish her wages, but he will a man who owes for back child support. By the way, I am a woman who was divorced and who raised two fine children by myself with little child support. Why not take the money out of the equation for visitation and emotional support and then deal with the money separately.   And let's face it child support rarely goes to

help support the child.

The guy being told they are the father should be smart enough to ask for a test if they are unsure the child is theirs, its just somthing that should be done they shouldnt just wait for ever to have them take a test then take it out on the child, yes the mother should get in trouble if they do that but the father or guy being told hes the father should ask for a test to be done if they dont want to pay child suport.

This is really sad. I really feel for the little girl and yes although Enrique was wrong in what he did it's not fair that he has to continue paying child support for a child that isn't his and should be reimbursed for what he has paid from the natural father. Enrique was very wrong in the way he handled it with the little girl and I don't think you can shut off feelings for anyone after that many yearsso I can't believe he was so inconsiderate.

     The mother should be punished for what she has done to both that lovely child but also Enrique and the state should go after the real father and make him pay. I hope someday Enrque and that lovely girl can work things out and have some kinda relationship.

 One more thing I want to tell the new step father -Thank you for being a stand up guy for your step daughter as anyone can be a dad but it takes a real man to be a father bravo to you

2 years after 2 children were born, 2 different women left my son a message and served him a summons that they needed his DNA.

For these 2 years, these women repeatedly denied my Son was the Father of these children and in fact he questoned these women repeatedly, because of the strong resemblance, they kept saying another man was their Father.

My son was taken to court, tested and after these beautiful children were already 2 1/2 years old, found he was indeed the Father of both children.  My son and our family feel cheated out of knowing these babies, they have Granparents that aren't theirs and now they are devestated, they have Grandparents they had never met that missed out on the most important loving, bonding time, in their life, and now they are so confused.  

The court ruled that my son was to pay 2 1/2 years back child support on both children or go to jail. I had to come up with thousands of dollars very quickly because he was deemed a deadbeat Dad even though these women obviously KNEW there was the possibiity that my Son was the childrens Father.

There was no recourse. There has to be justice, this is devestating to so many Families.

 I have recently lost my only son to a motorcycle accident and that is  why I am speaking out for him. He did get to see them a few times after we found out, but these children barely got to know their REAL Father before he died. The Mothers brought the chldren to the Funeral parlor where they were told that was their Father  lying in a coffin, what a terrible thing they have done to these children. 

These woman have now run right to social security to collect the benefit, which they will receive  a good amount of money monthly. I don't begrudge that they will receive help, I am happy for them and will help however I can, they are my Grandchildren.

I was angry that My son and I were cheated from knowing about these most beautiful children for those years.

Something has to be done and shame on the Attorney for saying what she is doing is right. How can she live with herself?