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Created on : Tuesday, November 20, 2007, 06:08:03 pm
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(Original Air Date: 11/29/07) Obesity is a huge problem for adults in this country, but now it’s becoming an epidemic among young children. Barbra says her 3-year-old daughter started gaining weight at six months old and now weighs 80 pounds. Barbra and her aunt, Dana, are baffled by what they believe is a medical mystery because they say the little girl doesn't overeat. Dr. Phil brings in two medical experts to get to the bottom of this issue. Is Barbra contributing to her child's weight gain? Then, Tammy says she can’t change her family's eating habits. She's obese, her 11-year-old is 175 pounds and her 9-year-old is 136 pounds. Her sister, Debbie, says the boys portion sizes are too big and the family is just lazy. Can Dr. Phil get Tammy to stick to a nutrition plan? You won’t believe the surprise he has for her! Plus, Jessica says her mom, Angie, is blind to the health issues of her 351-pound sister, Jaleisa, who is only 15. Jessica says her mom never buys healthy food, and she fears her mom has Munchausen’s syndrome. Angie says she can’t monitor Jaleisa’s eating habits all day. Can Angie turn this situation around and save her daughter’s life, or is it too late? Talk about the show here.

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May 23, 2008, 1:07 pm PDT

people just need to let children be children

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im called sarah i lived in UK . and moved here 3 yrs ago i am the mum 0of archie . who has MOMO syndrome. he is the only one in UK and USA who has it .. its life limited with no cure .. plzzzzz ppl do a search on www.info.com  type in momo syndrome or even the title archie the 84lb baby .. he was featured on both discovery health and TLC.. my son too was accused of over eating . and it took 2 yrs me going to every doctor . i even went to brazil to meet a family of a girl who had it.. everything from leptin dis order to prader willie .....
 HI!!!  My name is Beth and I am a stay at home mom.  Sarah I have seen the documentary on Archie and your family and have gone online to research MOMO Syndrome.  My husband and I were wondering if there is some type of foundation for Archies and his condition because many of my friends and I wanted to help out.  I found there is not much information on MOMO Syndrome.  To see what you went through on TV ,  You are the strongest person I know and a roll model to all moms.  Archie is beautiful.  I have a little blond haired blue eyed 15month old boy.  I think that is why your program touched my heart so much!!!  Dr.s are very quick to say a child is fat and it is the parents  fault.  My son Colin is healthy but he has always been larger than the the average child.  At 13 months he was 31 lb and 36 inches tall.  I find people staring at him with his bottle and when he talks because they think he is much older than he is and they make rude comments under their breath or come right out and say something.  I can only imagine what you have gone through.  My freinds who are also mothers and I where wondering how little Archie is doing today?  Sarah stay strong and keep being the wonderful person you are.  I have come to the conclusion there will always be the sort of programs focusing on childrens wait and I have come to ignore them.   You are a wonderful person.  If you could please contact me and let me know how your family is.

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May 29, 2008, 2:21 pm PDT

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is there any follow up on this show due? i hope these kids got the help they needed.



If there is a follow-up, I wouldn't count on it until the new season begins in September. Tomorrow, the show goes into re-runs.
 
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May 29, 2008, 4:23 pm PDT

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Tammy couldn't change her family's eating habits until she took the lead by changing hers. With Dr Phil's resources. This show has already aired once. Tammy, if you're a member of this board. and you read this, let us know how it's working for you. 
 
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May 31, 2008, 11:54 am PDT

Doctor Phil Show

Big Doctor Phil Too Young. I have seen this before last year. And again I will see it again this next week.----

See you on Wednesday June 04th, 2008. Sincerley Your. Russell Vlaanderen.---------------------------------------

 
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June 3, 2008, 7:54 pm PDT

obesity

I am writing about the show for tomorrow about obesity. I as a mother of one do understand the problem as I am obese myself at 245 pounds. I do not blame my mother for making me obese as it started around the age of 11 or 12, I blame myself for eating and not exercising and just doing whatever I bloody felt like it. My son Tyler who is almost 13 is overweight as well. He could probably lose about 40 pounds himself. I do blame myself doe his actions as I bring in the food and I buy the treats for him. I do not do it to shut him up and never did that, he only became starting to get bigger around 10 or so. I think a lot of parents just do not want to listen to the child complain if they do not get what they want so they just feed them. We do not at this time exercise at all even though we have an ab lounger and an exercise bike as well as I have a membership at a gym as well.I think people that have never been in my position which is being the fat kid and know also the fat adult that they cannot say what they would do until they are in our shoes, that makes me angry, but right now am worried for all the high amount of obesity everywhere, it has to be stopped especially for the kids.

 
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June 3, 2008, 10:45 pm PDT

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I didn't say smoking is bad, I said smoking in front of your child IN THE HOUSE, is bad. I have a right to say that. I know what kind of health problems can happen from it. I think you would agree sitting at a dinner table with your kids, and lighting up a smoke might be really bad for there health. And doing something bad to there health and not wanting to change it is ABUSE. Just like I would call CPS on a woman that gets drunk with her kids around, not have a couple of drinks, but gets wasted, thats unhealthy for the children to deal with. And it has nothing to do with playing GOD it has to do with knowing what is healthy and what is unhealthy. Would you give your child fried foods every night, if they were obese? If you knew you were causing a early death for your child. Why should a parent have free range to cause that kind of health problem? And I'm not talking about children with health problems that cause them to be overweight, and there are alot of health problems that can cause a child to be fat. But if your child has no health problems, but you keep giving them burger king, pizzas, cookies, candies everyday then you are a bad parent.

I noticed you said, "Would you give your child fried foods every night, if they were obese? IF you knew you were causing an early death for your child?"

 

I capitalized the second if, because at this time, we do not have sufficent evidence that simply being fat can kill. Yes, even when it comes to children. Certianly, there will be cases where a child is what most people would consider outrageously overweight. However, few people will first see if the child has another medical problem before they jump the gun, and assume their child got fat simply by overeating.

 

I think it's terrible we're putting our adult judgements towards fat people, onto our children. We're setting these children up for a life where they will have problems with food. Have you ever heard of a 5 year old child having Anorexia? No? I didn't think so, because that doesn't get the same ratings as "Our kids are all becoming HUUUUUGGEEE fatsos, and we have to do something now!"

 

However, it DOES happen. When we assume ALL children are at a risk for obesity, and set children up to follow a diet. Children who have NO life experience to be able to gage what is moderate for them. We are setting up alot of children, to eat too little to be able to grow. Children need to eat some fat. :O Children, eat alot of sugar because they expend alot of energy running around. Oh, and if you want to tell me all kids today sit at home on their butts playing video games, go visit your local Chuck E Cheese or Discovery Zone. You will see kids running around like crazy. Children naturally are born with the ability to want to exercise.

 

If you ask me, I think a big problem with adults exercising is we've made it so darn boring for ourselves. Heck, if there was a tunnel maze jungle gym for adults, you bet I'd go there to play around. Instead we think, that people are going to want to do something as boring as walking on a treadmill. I'm just saying, you don't see many people at Disneyworld refusing to walk the parks, because they are more excited about visiting the rides than the pain or exhaustion that can come from exercising.

 

 
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June 3, 2008, 10:48 pm PDT

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One more think, I noticed that it's said Jessica fears her mom has Munchausen's Syndrome. Are you sure that shouldn't be Munchausen by Proxy Syndrome?

 

Munchausen's Syndrome: Someone harming themselves for attention/pity. Making themselves ill for sympathy from others.

 

Munchausen's by Proxy Syndrome: Someone harming another person, for attention/pity. As in making the person sick, so they will get sympathy from others.

 

I just thought I'd check, cause it sounded more like the 2nd one, and I understand alot of people can get those confused.

 

 

 
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June 4, 2008, 7:31 am PDT

Tough

Look,

Take Dr. Phil's advice. I am not the picture of health. I go to the gym 4 days a week and hate it. I would love to let everyone know that it's the best experience of my life; but I can't wait to get done(6 years now and my highest was 225. 6' male). I view it  the same as the dentist, don't want to, but feel guilty if I don't go. Here's what I do and don't be offended if it doesn't work for you:

 

Go to the gym or walk. Do something good for yourself today that you didn't do yesterday. I'm 42 years old and want to see my daughter married and graduate college. If you can't do it for yourself do it for the most important person in your life

 

I weigh myself once a year. I couldn't care what I weigh as long as my pants fit. (probably wouldn't do it that often but my company requires a physical) and my waist has been a 34 for 10 years

 

Stay off the fast food. (yes it's good but not worth it. I'm not talking salads but some form of balance is good)

 

Feel good about yourself. I have habits that are not healthy, but I also have qualities that I think others wish they had. Being heavy DOES NOT make you a bad person.

 

I guess what I'm trying to say is that if you feel you are overweight, make the decision to change it. You may not like the gym, you may not like giving up McDonalds, but spend a bit of time trying something different. None of us decided to be overweight, but fix it and don't bitch about it. Also don't have an epiphany and fix it tomorrow. It didn't happen yesterday and won't be fixed tomorrow.

 
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June 4, 2008, 7:39 am PDT

No Excuse

 I am sorry but there is no excuse for children to be THAT big. As a parent you are responsible for what is bought at the grocery store, and controlling how much a child eats. In our home, we only buy healthy food and have healthy snacks. We have chips and other "special snacks" but they are only given on special occasions and in small qauntities. We encouragae the children to ride their bikes, and play outside and have the kids enrolled in sports and activities. Television and video games are limited. I strongly believe that it is up to the parents to help a child eat and be healthy. When a parent can't make those choices even for themselves, how do they expect their children to do so?. And when parents complain that if their child screams because they cant get that extra helping of ice cream, who cares, let them scream. It's called having boundries. I will say it again, there is no excuse to allow your child to get that obese. Shame on the parents who allow this. Not only are you encouraging a life time of mental and emotional issues for your child, but your also creating a lifetime of health issues. A parent is responsible for protecting their child, not setting them up for a lifetime of problems.
 
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June 4, 2008, 7:57 am PDT

Your country will catch up.

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You know, each time my son & I visit the US of A
we are continuously astounded by how many obese people we see in a day and we aren't out to ridicule them. We don't know the reasons of why each individual is so overweight but each time we see one
we think about how much weight the body is carrying around and the burden placed on the hearts and knees and joints ! As Dr.Phil has said, the obese seriously need to take on a lifestyle change if they want to be healthy and do this before your weight take its toll on you physically and emotionally. It's very demoralizing for people to stare at you open mouthed and just with the 'how could you allow yourself to get like that in the first place look" on their face.
If my 10 year old can make healthy choices and tell me he'll pass desert because he had some candy earlier, you can too... we might add, we are real foodies too.. we love to eat, but our weight is healthy. Thanks.
This post reminds me of the book "French Women Don't Get Fat," that was so popular a few years ago. Then France made a study and found out that obesity is on the rise there and it predicted that within 20 years the French would weigh just as much as the Americans.

One reason for the increase in obesity in America is that so many of us have quit smoking. Smoking is still very common in the UK and Europe, but as those people give up tobacco, a natural appetite reducer, then the average weight of the citizens will rise.

Yes we all need to make good food choices and exercise, but I was doing both of those things when I quit smoking and I still gained 60 pounds the first year.

Weight control is a constant battle for many of us. We can't just quit eating the way we can quit drinking or smoking, we have to have a little bit of our problem substance every day.

My dog doesn't have any emotional issues but she would eat three times what she needs if it was put in front of her. We are all programed to feast when food is available because a famine might be right around the corner.

For many of us it's a very fine line between eating so little our metabolism slows down and eating so much we gain. If it's easy for you then be grateful but don't be smug.
 
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