Topic : **Alaska: in need of support

Number of Replies: 3
New Messages This Week: 0
Last Reply On:
Created on : Friday, December 28, 2007, 10:45:28 pm
Author : teresa24

I am an over weight 27yo women.  I have never been really small.  I married a larger man, and since I have let myself go.  I am not happy with the current state of things, however I find it so hard to make that commitment to myself.  I know I need to, I weigh now 230#.  When my husband and I met I was 170.  He is on borad with my weight loss desires most of the time, however if he is not in the mood to eat the right food he won't, and I just follow along.  HELP     my email is teresa24johnson@yahoo.com  Thank you for listening to my whining.




Message Emote
blank
January 4, 2008, 3:11 pm PST

Boy, do I HEAR you!!!!

We aren't the same age, but we have the same history.  I started gaining weight when I was 8-yrs old.  I never stopped.  In high school, I was known as the largest person in the building.....for four years. I've been on every diet known to mankind (cabbage soup diet, HCG shots, Weight Loss Clinic, Weight Watchers, Nutrisystem, T.O.P.S. banana diet, Atkins diet, Beverly Hills Diet, hospitalization at 13-yrs of age, etc, etc.........)  My husband is not the problem anymore (we're divorced: happy, happy, joy, joy), though my adult son, despite all my years of trying to teach him good eating habits, has become a meat-rice-junk food eater.  After being diagnosed with breast cancer, I gained 65 pounds.  I think I may be the only person who GAINED weight during chemotherapy!!!  I'm healthy again, but I am FAT FAT FAT.  My current scale stops at 270, so I'm guessing at 285.  I have never made a New Year's resolution in my life...until now.  My goal is to "baby-step" my way down the scale.  My first action plan:  stop eating between meals.  I didn't think it would be this hard, but, geez......my knees shake, and suddenly I can't think of one good reason I shouldn't be eating pb&j.  The good news is, I'm actually succeeding (not %100, but at least 95).  So, if you want encouragement, I'd certainly be interested.   I didn't want to be fat and forty...well, ok, it's too late for that.....now I'm trying NOT to be fat and fifty!!!

 
User Mood
Happy

Message Emote
blank
January 9, 2008, 8:48 am PST

**Alaska: in need of support

where in ak do you all live?
 
User Mood
Happy

Message Emote
blank
January 9, 2008, 8:50 am PST

**Alaska: in need of support

Sorry I couldn't edit previous message, but do you all go to church?  Do you have co-workers you can get together with and exercise during the week.  Form some type of buddy system and make this your year.  My husband and I are starting something up at our church.  There will be more women than men, but I'm up for the challenge!  Praying for you.
 

First Page | Previous Page | 1 | Next Page | Last Page