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Over 50 percent of men and only 19 percent of women say they think about it several times a day. On the average, you do it almost 100 times a year. No, you don’t have a dirty mind – the topic is SEX! With the help of renowned OB/GYN Lisa Masterson, Dr. Phil tackles sex issues, and you might be surprised at how much you can relate! First up, Jason says his wife, Sylvia, has two personalities: Sylvia the 6th grade school teacher and Sylvia the sex maniac. Can the couple find a happy medium with what goes on in their bedroom? Then, Robin and Tom have been engaged for four years but haven’t set a wedding date. Tom says there’s something his betrothed won’t do that’s keeping him from saying, "I do." Can Dr. Masterson help Robin rescue her relationship? Next, statistics show that nearly 10 percent of women never have an orgasm through sexual activity. Becki says she had her first -- and last -- in 1998. Could her problem be biological? Be there when she hears her test results after a full examination. And, meet a couple who says they have sex up to six times a day. Is there such a thing as too much? Plus, Dr. Masterson answers your most embarrassing questions about sex. Join the discussion.

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southernbell77

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March 12, 2008, 11:18 pm PDT

A "Fish"??? Probably not.....

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I agree that everyone has the right to determine their own course of action - sex outside (or only within) a marriage, however, it really ticks me off that this day and age of permissivness has essentially spoiled the well for people who believe as I do.

I do not believe in sex before marriage, but the fact that almost everyone else on the face of this planet harbors no such belief (or if they do, they don't abide by it) just about condems folks like me to a life of celibacy. I've just about given up.....I'm 38 (had hoped to be married and have a child by now, but, oh well...I suppose if I come into some money so I can care for a child alone I can head to the sperm bank....) and I see little point in dating anymore. What jaded man is going to want to wait for me? And what few men I've fallen for have no interest in me (I'm sure that at least part of the disinterest is my personal beliefs). I know darned well the last man I went after rejected me because I'm a virgin. It is very unfair that the waters are so tainted that I cannot find a single "fish" who will respect my beliefs.

not this day in age, anyways. But, i do wish u the best of luck in finding that ONE fish.

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mapsoildir

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March 12, 2008, 11:23 pm PDT

The woman who wanted too much?

The thing about the woman who wanted more than her husband mentioned she liked some rough sex. Perhaps her husband does not feel the closeness with that type of sex. Does she act in other ways at home so she will be punished, so she can enjoy the type of sex she really wants from him ( her fetish). That is sick IMO and if you, as a partner do not end up feeling bad about it, it is o.k., but it can ruin a relationship and if they want it that badly; is the woman going outside the relationship for it? Also, the woman who had no desire.... I had a time, when for medical reasons, they gave me progesterone to take and it made me very sexual. It also gave me disturbing sexual dreams. Things sorted out when the hormones came back in balance. Unfortuneately for my husband, I have no desire right now, as I've had breast cancer and had to take an anti estrogen pill. Sex would be incredibly painful and lubricants have not helped. I don't know if things will improve when I get to stop the pill soon, but there are other emotional and financial situations that keep my desires down also. Perhaps my husband should divorce me for his sake.

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mapsoildir

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March 12, 2008, 11:34 pm PDT

03/12 Let’s Talk about Sex

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High five to you. I hope they post my comments too by tomorrow....I felt the same way today as I watched...since I have had IC for years myself. I hope you have come across Bladder Q. It changed my life since there is no cure. God bless you. Robin

I don't know of Bladder Q, but what my Dr. told me to do for the condition was to urinate right after having sex and take 1 pill of an antibiotic that he prescribed and that worked for me. I was only having sex 1 to 2 X per week or two, so that wasn't too many pills to take.

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ladyjessica

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March 13, 2008, 4:36 am PDT

Robin and Tom

Is it possible that Robin's problem, on a subconcious level, is her body responding to the prospect of making love with a total JERK? She calls him the love of her life and he says if she can't be fixed he'll need to move on. He dismisses any health problems she might have. Then he doesn't have the balls to even come on the show! This is "their" problem - if he loves her - and not just "her" problem. Wake up Robin! If you marry this guy you are setting yourself up for heart ache. He will not be there for you over the long haul.

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cherylnjohn04

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March 13, 2008, 5:12 am PDT

ROBIN AND TOM

WELL WELL WELL ROBIN.. UR FAMOUS NOW...I HOPE YOU GET THE HELP THAT YOU NEED.. ALL THESE PEOPLE FEEL SOO BAD FOR YOU.. ITS TOO BAD THEY DONT KNOW THE WHOLE STORY!!!!

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1veggirl

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March 13, 2008, 5:34 am PDT

Why Why Why would you air that on tv?

I'm just watching the teacher/nympho wife and husband discuss their sex life. Why would you ever air all of that on tv? Especially if you have a job working with children? Maybe discussing that they have different sexual needs is ok but going as far as to talk about spanking, sex toys, and the wife's obsession with the husbands ass? I hope she doesn't like her job. I feel like I need a shower.

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dgpic4

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March 13, 2008, 6:51 am PDT

Get Sue

Great show Dr. Phil

How about gettng Sue Johanssen on your show to set the record straight on sexual topics and terminology. She's a hoot !!!

Thanks David P

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dgpic4

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March 13, 2008, 6:57 am PDT

03/12 Let’s Talk about Sex

Quote From: southernbell77

not this day in age, anyways. But, i do wish u the best of luck in finding that ONE fish.

I believe there's a man for every woman and a woman for every man; you just have to get out there and keep looking.

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eilvajohn

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March 13, 2008, 7:05 am PDT

Pandoras Box

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I see where you'r coming from. "Why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free" right? I amit its sad to see most freshmen coming into highschool with it already lost. Sex doesn't even seem considerable until atleast one year of dateing.
At the sametime, saving it for marriage seems abit unwise too. You don't buy the car before taking it on atleast one test drive. You know?

I think that is part of the mystery of marriage. Look at the head lines, 1 in 4 teens have an STD. Almost 50% of African American girls, how sad. These girls are opening themselves up to diseases, certain types of cancer, etc. I worked with unwed mothers for 15 years, and you know what I used to tell them as they were sitting in my office, scared, panic stricken, should I have an abortion? Should I have the baby? Should I give it up for adoption? A thousand questions going thru their minds some as young as 12 and 13 years old. God in all of His infinite wisdom didn't give us "rules" to be the big cosmic killjoy, He just didn't want you sitting in a place like this talking to a person like me! When you have sex before marriage you are opening Pandora's Box, and sometimes what you reap is a whirlwind!

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annehs321

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March 13, 2008, 7:07 am PDT

Is that working for you?

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I think that if you are 38 and still a virgin it scares most men off. For some reason a lot of men (not all) are scared of a woman who is still a virgin. Don't really know why.

Whenever Dr. Phil has someone on the show that is doing something that is not beneficial to the person's well being he always asks IS THAT WORKING FOR YOU? To stay a virgin because of your beliefs in your teens and 20's might have been honorable but to continue to avoid one of the most wonderful parts of being an adult into your 30's - 40's is just plain sad. If you have taken care of yourself and can sucessfully attract a nice man I suggest you keep your virgin mouth closed and just try it. You will not die and you will not be dammed to hell for experiencing this wonderful act that God himself created. Loosen up and enjoy life before you wake up and it is over and you regret the choices you have made.

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