Quote From: hrinksI am sorry to hear what you are going through yourself. That is tough, I have been there in some ways.
I would love to see you be helped and your life COMPLETELY restored. I had precancer and God completely healed me. My brother was supposed to die as a child from a multiple of health issues relating from his premature birth - my mother had faith, changed her life completely for God, brought my brother to Pastor Benny Hinn, and my brother is 25 years old - a miracle child.
My husband's family does not care for me but my prayer partner and I prayed for their daughter to be completely healed of a intestinal issue that the doctors claimed to be incurable and it was wrecking havoc in her body - we had faith for TOTAL healing, restoration, and for her to be completely off the medications and hormones - and her miracle came this year. The little girl is only 4.
I KNOW that Jesus heals. I have seen it, experienced it, and God is amazing. Below I included information on Creflo Ministries - that pastor was healed from prostate cancer by God.
These resources have helped me:
Focus on the Family 800 A FAMILY (232-6459) - the give ONE FREE COUNSELING SESSION BY PHONE PER PERSON PER YEAR
www.family.org
They have LOTS of free materials on their website and they will send lots of free materials including brochures and a free magazine (several to choose from).
www.joycemeyer.org
She went through a bad marriage the first go round and has lots of free resources regarding healing. Her magazine is free - Enjoying Everyday Life - and it is very good and covers lots of topics, healing, health, marriage, and health (diet).
Prayer line 1 800 727 9673
www.creflodollarministries.com
Creflo Dollar Ministries Prayer line 1 866 477 7683
Daystar Prayer Line
1 800 329 0029
Leave a message and they will call you back to pray.
www.Peteryoungren.org
24 Hour Prayer Center 1 800 275 2713
Can leave message and/or get a call back
www.cnb.com
1 800 759 0700
The 700 Prayer Club - 24 hours - usually someone picks up
This is a really good one and they can send you various resources, many for free, too.
www.kcm.org
1 800 575 4455
Kenneth Copeland Ministries
They have some great resources on healing.
You can order their Victory Voice magazine for FREE and it is an incredible resource for articles on faith, healing, prosperity, etc.
In regards to your bf, his response was yucky. However, if I was in your shoes, I would focus my energy on my relationship with God and my child being completely healed (yes, it IS possible - I have seen many miracles).
There is a good book called divorce busters that has some helpful information on dealing with someone when it gets to the point where they want to leave. The is a website that explains (you can find all the stuff free on the website) love busters and emotional needs, you can do the questionnaires if you download and print them, http://www.marriagebuilders.com/ and a lot of this information is helpful. I personally do not have the time to give my husband 15 hours undivided attention but the information about love busters and emotional needs is great information. Plus there are a lot of columns on affairs. If you bf is talking to an old girl, you might want to read up on how to respond because if he is "addicted" to talking to her because she is filling a need (affection for instance), then your arguments at this moment are going to make things worse. Even though, yes, I agree with you that he is WRONG for that and it is not fair. However, if you want to get your relationship on track, you will find this information found in his responses regarding affair questions very helpful and if applied, it might lead to him leaving her alone because you will go back to filling up his love tank rather than being a source of emotional pain for him.
So, yes, something is wrong with the relationship and there could be underlying issues. However, the information I listed can be of great help for you.
"All things will work together for those who love God and are called according to his purposes" Romans 8:28 This is a PROMISE from God FOR Christians. I hope that you believe in Jesus, if you do, I know that you can have the abundant life that Jesus died for us to have according to John 10:10 (the thief comes only to steal, kill, and destroy but I came that they will have life, in abundance, to the full, and until it overflows) if you abide in Jesus and then He lives in you. If you do not know Jesus, then you can see your need for His help, admit your sins (we all break the commandments and fall short), ask him into your heart to cleanse, and forgive you, and make him your Lord and Savior. From this point forward, if you get the above materials (the free magazines) and you begin reading the bible - the gospels, Matthew, Mark, Luke, and John plus Proverbs for wisdom and Psalms are helpful too, then you will be ON YOUR WAY TO YOUR BEST LIFE EVER!
I will be praying for your son and I would love to see him completely restored by the Father. If you want to contact me, check my profile for my email address. I surf this messageboard because I know that people come here looking for healing that ONLY GOD and JESUS can provide- the water that quenches all thirsts permanently, the bible is the book that answers all questions.
That was the kindest post I have ever read! How thoughtful of you to put so much effort into helping someone you don't even know! You probably didn't even think twice about it! Bless you!!!!