Quote From: meme22I was as sincere a "Christian" woman as anyone could ever have been from the age of 16 through 45. And I never once felt at home within it. I stuck to the basics according to the records words of Christ, but felt like an anomaly with each of the various churches/denominations I tried. I gave myself to it, genuinely loved people but received only conditional love back. I served tirelessing on committees, pray sincerely for people, gave and never asked for anything in return, and still came to see it for what it truly is. It's a sham for the most part and , a crutch that I don't need, and realize I never needed. If it works for you, good on you. But, if you open your eyes to history, you'll see that Christianity is just one of the foremost religious of this world over centuries, that has been the cause for the death of innocent people (especially free thinking women), wars, political upheaval (and not for the better) and other ignominious things. I believe, with all I've studied and personally experienced, that this world would be ten times better without religion at all, and especially without Christianity. I know my life is. And my family's life is. Because, the truth set us free from all of it's nonsense and mind control.
If Christianity were the panacea you proffer, then it is failing miserably, isn't it? Jerks in public ministry have cast judgment on 3000 people killed during 9/11 and others killed in hurricanes. Who the heck are these bastions of malice and hate who are held up as "Christian" leaders. They make my case for me.
The only love I've ever had within humanity in my 51 years has not come from professing Christians. In fact the worst treatment, judgement, condemnation, and withholding of help has come from professing Christians. I fnd that those who are smart enough to not submit to its mind control, or have been spewed from its midst due to nonconformity are the ones who have shown me love, joy, peace and acceptance. I am glad to be free of its clutches, and so is my pocketbook, my healthy, my well-being,my peace of mind, and my enduring friendships. Good riddance.
We don't need religion, we need love and acceptance. Religion talks about it, but it doesn't offer that. Period.
Hi meme22,
I decided to reply because your post really struck my interest. This is actually my 3rd or 4th attempt to reply. On my second attempt, I finished and hit "post," then I had to sign in again and as you know it cleared my entire message. So frustrated, I thought to myself "oh, just forget it" but something wouldn't let me "just forget it." Have you ever had something just tug and tug at you until you acknowledge it?
I would like to apologize for you being made to feel like an anomaly by what were supposed to be your fellow Christians. That's not what Christianity is supposed to be about. We as Christians, are supposed to encourage and guide one another. When you say you "only received conditional love back" what exactly do you mean by that? What religion were you and how do you view God now, if you don't mind me asking?
You speak of Christianity as one religion but there are many different branches so-to-speak. There's Catholic, Baptist, Lutheran, Mormon, etc.
You made mention that Christianity is a cult. Well, not necessarily. There definitely are cult-like organizations in most religions but not all forms of religion are cults. Having refreshed my memory on the definition, I can see why you would think that though. I found this link and thought it to be interesting. I read it if you'd like. http://www.essortment.com/all/whatisdefiniti_rjli.htmI I am considered Quaker, which is a lot like Baptist. We believe Jesus is the Savior of the world and we focus on a one-on-one relationship with Him and Him only. We believe in the Trinity (that Jesus, God and the Holy Spirit are 3 in 1), which is extremely confusing for some. I can honestly say, even I don't know how to adequately explain it. We read the Holy Bible, although, I don't recommend the King James Version, it's confusing. I prefer the NIV. I don't want to bore you too much with our doctrine, just want you to know where I come from.
I am not here to judge. My motto is judge not lest ye be judged. I used to be the most judgmental person. I thought my way was the right and only way and couldn't understand why others disagreed. It wasn't until I started reading these boards that I realized, there are so many different types of people and they all have a right to choose what they want to believe. I am a firm believer that whatever measure one uses to judge they will be judged to that measure. Matthew 7:2 The fact remains, I can't tell you to get the speck of sawdust out of your eye until I get the plank out of my own eye. Matthew 7:3-5
Anyway, I'm sure you are wishing I would shut up. I'm almost done. I just wanted you to know that not all Christians speak for me, as I'm sure I don't speak for them. If there ever came a time when you needed someone's support and encouragement you are more than welcome to email me at shellygirl80@verizon.net. I'm sure you have family and friends you confide in but you can add me to the list, if you'd like.
Sincerely,
Michelle