Topic : 10/04 Ask Dr. Phil

i just wanted to say something about 5 ft 100 pound Melissa, ok my name is also Melissa im 24 yrs old and im only 4ft 11 and also only weigh 100 pounds and im not complaining i love being small and petite i find it to be extremely cute and sexy so my comment to her would be shut up!! and get over it its not that bad being small

ok today's guest all were getting on my nerves, you mean to tell me, you have a chance to talk to dr. phil and you want to talk about, height, dogs and car accidents. if only they could hear me yelling at the t.v. please people, get a clue on life and stop cring over simple stuff. please dr. phil, i need to come on your show and tell people live "please don't come on the show to talk about dumb things" height girl=get some high heels, dog lover=show your husband some lovin', and couple fighting behind the wheel=call me to let me know when you will be on the street, so i know not to drive that day. please people i'm sick of it.

Unbelievable! The 5'  100lb. model.  Boohoo! I'm perfectly tiny and beautiful so I think I'll hate all fat people who have ever had one good thing happen to them!  What do overweight issues have to do with her stature?  I'm sorry I just cannot give one iota of grace or pity to this princess!  She obviously had nothing to complain about BEFORE appearing on today's show, and we ALL know she will have nothing to complain about after she gets her latest modeling contracts as a result of her being on the show.  Some modeling scout somewhere will pick her sorry butt up and contract her for the short is beautiful campaign soon to be discovered.  Isn't that what this was REALLY about Ms Princess? 

What a wannabe diva!  

Three things: 

1) learn how to say ridiculous (because you should at least be able to pronounce your very nature) 

2) gain 10 pounds and you too can be a plus size model!   

or 

3) I'll bet every overweight person everywhere would, as you suggested, "stop eating" if you would just grow up...say to 5' 6' and a ripe maturity level of maybe 12 years old!       

Call me when you've obtained your goals....I'll get right on the stopping overweight people from eating!   

Dr.Phil,  

       I wish I weighed 100 lbs. I didnt know they made a size "0".  Put a 3 before that, and thats me. For such a short person, this girl is on a very high horse. Doesn't she know the modeling industry has made it very clear that "fat" people don't "fit" in their world either. Yes there are plus size models, but you never see the day when one is labeled a "Super model" and recognized as an equal to someone like Niaomi Campbell. It seems she picks on overweight people because she can. We have the ability to change our outer appearance with hard work and dedication which makes her a bitter, self pitied bully who, typical of bullies, pick on the fat person or the geek etc... to make themselves feel better. 

This woman spends too much time worrying about herself and can't see what is around her. I am sure that she gets comments on her height that are negative (these people may just be jealous or small minded!) and some that are just teasing. But she obviously is missing the people that are envious of her! I am barley five three and weigh over two hundred pounds I know it is my responsibility to loss weight, and considering how hard it is to loss weight, I appreciate people like Dr. Phil who encourage and reward those who achieve their goals! 

  

If this woman's biggest problem is that she is a size 0 and less then three inches shorter then me then she needs to open her eyes and realize that there are people out there with bigger problems then hers and mine. People who are deformed, handicapped, poor, abused, born into places where they have no voice to change their circumstances! Maybe she should try doing some outreach work, helping those in her community less fortunate and then she might have a better prospective on her own life. 

I have a "small" problem with the girl who whined about being short and complained about fat people and people who used to be fat.  Let me think, was that all?  I am sure there was more but I was too busy stuffing my fat body with bonbons and deep-fried donuts to hear the rest.  Unbelievably intolerant, and "small" minded.  Being 5'2" tall and fat, I can feel insulted on both topics.  I love being who and what I am.  I could not care less what a person looks like, but I do care how someone acts to others.  It is a real shame that someone could be so cold and self absorbed.  I wake up each morning to kiss my hubby goodbye as he goes off to work.  Next I move 2 snoring 100 lb. dogs off of me so that I can get my daughter up for school.  We spend the next hour talking about mom and daughter stuff.  This is more important to me than how tall I am or what I weigh that day.  It seems to me that this girl needs to grow...grow up that is.  She may be beautiful on the outside, but to me it is the inside that counts. 

She was just looking for 15 minutes of fame. She came across very stoic and unpersonable. No one I would want to work with, for or around. Hope she has a backup plan to the modeling. Her attitude really detracted from what beauty she could have possessed. And Dr. Phil was so gracious to tell her she was beautiful. Glad the show is over and hopefully she'll never been seen on his show again.

I am now 39 years old, I am 5"4" and I am a recovering anorexic, during the best time of my life I only felt that i was ever a 7 out of 10.  No body has EVER paid me for my looks.  You should thank God that you have your health, never mind that you are finding work as a model.  

As for stating that Dr. Phil should not reward people for changing their lives by losing weight, you should be ashamed. Just as your height is genetic a weight problem sometimes is too.  Aren't you being a little quick to judge, just as you are being judged yourself? 

A husband shouldn't have to be trained. The right man does understand NO, does mean it when he kisses you, takes a bath (or shower), and thinks we're culinary geniuses.  Gracious, if they don't do all that listed above, then why in the world would you want them in the first place?

Wow! Where have you been? Middle aged women like sex- older women like sex- its the partner you have that makes it enjoyable! And if you don't have a partner, a vibrator is a great alternative to frustration! Sex doesn't begin in the bedroom with a "hey, you wanna?" It starts with loving pats, interest in your partner, conversation, good hygiene, safety. A woman who feels loved is going to share it with her partner- a woman who feels like a maid, cook, housekeeper, financial wizard, and all around go-fer isn't going to feel like making love when she goes to bed- shes going to want to get some rest!!!!!! One of my best friends told me that whenever her husband vacuumed the living room, she felt like giving him oral right there!  Another told me that when her husband got the kids  their baths and into bed, she would take a bath and they would have awesome sex just because she had a half hour to relax.  Think about it guys-  is the effort it takes to clean up the kitchen after supper worth having a sexy bed partner?????  You decide....ps- womens sex drives increase after their early 30's