Message Boards

Topic : 06/30 Addicts Transformed

Number of Replies: 302
New Messages This Week: 0
Last Reply On:
Created on : Thursday, October 20, 2005, 03:02:09 pm
Author : DrPhilBoard1

(Original Air Date: 10/28/05) Being a mom is hard enough, but imagine juggling soccer, PTA meetings, homework and carpools all while trying to cover up a secret life of drug addiction. Dr. Phil follows up with some moms who say they were junkies. Joani, a mother of two, couldn't get through a half hour without shooting up -- and she was a nurse in a drug rehabilitation center! It's been six months -- how is she now? Then, Stephanie was addicted to Vicodin and took 60 times the recommended dosage every day. She's been clean for four months, but now has a new problem. Plus, a viewer inspired by Stephanie checks herself into rehab. Join the discussion.

 

Find out what happened on the show.


More June 2006 Show Boards.


As of January, 2009, this message board will become "Read Only" and will be closed to further posting. Please join the NEW Dr. Phil Community to continue your discussions, personalize your message board experience, start a blog and meet new friends.

User Mood
Happy

Message Emote
blank
June 30, 2006, 2:17 pm PDT

06/30 Addicts Transformed

Quote From: tmystery

 How did you stop cold turkey? I'm addicted to percocet and I would do anything to stop, but I don't know how. I feel so ashamed that I let it get this far.
Get yourself  in a Twelve Step program....Go to meetings, get a sponsor and follow the suggestions.....and be willing to do whatever it takes to get better
 
User Mood
Distressed

Message Emote
surprised
June 30, 2006, 2:30 pm PDT

addicted

 I AM APPALLED THAT A DR. WOULD PUT THE CHILD ON THE SAME DRUG THE WOMAN WAS ADDICTED TO FOR 30 YEARS.......THIS FAMILY WOULD DO WELL TO GO TO SOMEONE WHO KNOWS ABOUT HEALTH.......NOT MEDICINE........THEY NEED TO BE AWARE OF MAN-MADE FOOD GOING INTO THIS CHILD'S BODY.......ANYTHING SUGAR-FREE HAS MAN-MADE SUGAR IN IT.....WHAT ABOUT PREPACKAGED FOOD WITH A LOT OF PRESERVATIVES IN IT.........THIS CHILD IS TOO YOUNG TO BE PUT ON A DRUG ........I HAVE HEARD THAT THE GOVERNMENT WANTS SCHOOLS  TO TEST EVERY CHILD FOR ADHD AND ADD AND PUT THEM ON DRUGS.....OH GOOD .....WE WILL HAVE ROBOTS FOR CHILDREN...DOES OUR SOCIETY REALLY AGREE WITH THAT?
 
User Mood
Mellow

Message Emote
blank
June 30, 2006, 3:20 pm PDT

my daughter

what can i do to help my daughter, 25 she is on meth, i saw evil in this child last month when we finally adressed this. now she say's she is trying to get off and doing really good with it   she tells her  dad and i and tells her sister something else. she put her sister and 2 year old daughter in danger by bring this people to the house my youngest  daughter told her she had to move out . she has  a son he will be 6 next month , he is spending the summer  with his dad. we think we need to call and say don't bring him home until she gets help. we give her no money and only buy for grandson when needed/ we buy his things for school. how can we help her?   

 
User Mood
Happy

Message Emote
blank
June 30, 2006, 3:23 pm PDT

06/30 Addicts Transformed

Quote From: tmystery

 How did you stop cold turkey? I'm addicted to percocet and I would do anything to stop, but I don't know how. I feel so ashamed that I let it get this far.

Be prepared to be sick.................you'll feel like crap for about a week or so, the first three days will be a living hell.    I couldn't do it cold turkey, I went to a methadone clinic.    Good Luck. 

And I wish people would STOP saying drug addiction is a disease.   It's NOT a disease, it's a choice.    You can choose to stop, and then choose to stay off the drugs.    Saying it's a disease is just an excuse to keep doing drugs. 

 
User Mood
Good

Message Emote
worried
June 30, 2006, 3:34 pm PDT

What a strong message

Quote From: just42day

Hi everybody, my name is Joy, and I am a drug addict!  Did I say that for you?  No, I say it for myself, and that is one of the reasons that I am clean and sober today.  The other reasons are simple, I decided to be HONEST, OPEN MINDED and WILLING.  Honest with myself first, that allows me to be able to be honest with others, openminded to listen and learn from those that have walked into recovery before me, and willing to follow their SUGGESTIONS.  

  

Living in active addiction is a hell of it's own.  It is not a decision that we actively make it a disease, a FATAL disease.  We are not void or morals, infact I beleive we feel to much.  For years I was caught in my addiction and truly beleived there was no way out....Finally in desperation, I went into an AA/NA meeting...there was no treatment center, no court order just a desire to stay clean.  Took me several times coming in and out and being AROUND the program.  Finally, I stopped fighting the battle and admitted defeat and I have been blessed with a life far better than this addict deserves.  

  

Those of you who don't understand what an addiction is like, you should thank God, the only way it can be understood is to be the addict.  Those of you who do understand, reach out, get help, work the steps, get a sponsor who has worked the steps and you too can live the life that you dream of. 

Can I ask what you were addicted to?  I am so scared to even be on here....
 
User Mood
Happy

Message Emote
sad
June 30, 2006, 4:04 pm PDT

I cried just watching Joani....

I watched that show with my hands soon over my face with me watching through my fingers.  I started crying and was soon almost sobbing.  I was shocked at Joani's boldness.  That demon almost crawled right out of her onto the screen!  What a grip!!  

  

THIRTY YEAR ADDICTION?!  Unreal.  And the rest of the program was just as gripping.  "There but for the grace of God go I"....but now I see family members going through this and denial of some other members.  What a wake up call time, even for me.  I call one member "The Puppet Master" because even though there is fresh evidence of use all he has to do is deny it and everyone believes him!  Drug test companies have spent MILLIONS to make sure those test kits are fail-proof, haven't they?  Who am I to believe?? (Not 1 but 2 brand spanking new pieces of evidence of using again.)  

  

I am going to stand strong and let the words ring in my ears...."If you are an addict, you are also by default also-A LIAR."  

  

Any thoughts? 

  

PS....thank you to the facility in Florida!  I thought my heart would pop when news of the "waiving the fees" was announced.  Makes the heart just swell!  Good people out there.  :O)  

  

  

 
User Mood
Depressed

Message Emote
blank
June 30, 2006, 4:36 pm PDT

06/30 Addicts Transformed

   

Today (Friday, June 30th) on the show was a follow-up on two women with an addiction to pain killers. Unfortunately, I only saw the last half of the show, so I don't know if it addressed the issue of the pain that started them on the drugs in the first place. I have a chronic pain condition that causes severe, debilitating headaches. Even though I have been to MANY doctors in the last 5 years, I still remain in pretty constant pain. My only relief is a chronic pain medication that works around the clock, and acute medication for break-thru pain. Like the women on the show, I would love to be off of this medication, but how do you deal with the pain? The last guest was a women who was inspired to seek treatment when she saw one of the other guests on a previous show. During her segment she said that she took the medication for a chronic pain condition, but she never talked about how she deals with the pain after getting off the medication. Can anyone offer me any insight into this? I have also tried alternative treatments such as acupuncture and chiropractic care without any success.   

   

 
User Mood
Depressed

Message Emote
blank
June 30, 2006, 5:06 pm PDT

My Addiction!!

Hi,I am a 25 year old woman whose life has been turned upside down by one choice that I made when I was 18. Well to start off I was molested by my step-father from (what I remember) the age of 8 to 14 (but what my sister remembers 5 to 14. She too was molested but was sent to a foster home when she told but anyhow, I never recieved any type of counseling for this and when I turned 18 and was out on my own I chose to start using drugs (pains pills). I started out taking them but advanced into snorting them.I would use them of and on for 2 years then at the age of 20 I started using them everyday several times a day and became very addicted to them, I got very sick and laid in the bed for 1 1/2 yrs. only getting up to snort a pill and was doing this 1 time an hour. I literally sleep for 1 1/2 yrs., I lost down to like less than 100lbs and I am 5'10, so you can imagine what I looked like, I was very sick, everytime that I got up to do a pill I would throw up, I only ate maybe 1 time a week and was lucky if I could hold it down. Now that I am almost 3 yrs. clean I have to have reconstructive surgery on my nose because it has collasped from the drug usage. I am unable to work because I now have breating problems from where my nose is collasped, I suffer from major depression and PTSS. I am now fighting to get my disability. I have been trying for over 2 yrs. now to get this surgery on my nose but can't find a doctor who can do this surgery because it is such an intense and long surgery, I have spoken to some doctors and it could be up to 1 year of surgeries and my nose may not even be fixed after all these surgeries. And one doctor said that he can do the surgery but he wants to cut on my face to get tissue and my face will be scared from that and the scars will be visible he also wants to take a main artery out of my wrist, could lose hand functioning over that and also wants to take skin from my arm and my arm will look like it has be burnt. And the worst part about this is that where I am unable to work I have no money and no insurance so I can't afford this surgery. I have tried everything I can think of to get help so I can get this surgery and get nothing. I guess it is like the old saying you get what you deserve,and I truly believe that But I also believe that you learn from your mistakes and can help other people not make the same mistakes that you have made. And yes I believe that everything happens for a reason and I have gotten what I deserve but I also believe that I have paid for my mistake long enough, And it's time for me to get my life back and start living again. If you have a loved one who is using drugs PLEASE make them read this so that they can see somewhat of what I have went through and it can maybe help them to get help and get clean. I Know it is hard and I know what you would be going through but in the end you WILL feel better and it WILL be worth it...   

 
User Mood
Peaceful

Message Emote
blank
June 30, 2006, 6:56 pm PDT

disease != excuse

Quote From: linc117

Be prepared to be sick.................you'll feel like crap for about a week or so, the first three days will be a living hell.    I couldn't do it cold turkey, I went to a methadone clinic.    Good Luck. 

And I wish people would STOP saying drug addiction is a disease.   It's NOT a disease, it's a choice.    You can choose to stop, and then choose to stay off the drugs.    Saying it's a disease is just an excuse to keep doing drugs. 

dis·ease   Audio pronunciation of ( P )  Pronunciation Key  (d-zz)
n.
  1. A pathological condition of a part, organ, or system of an organism resulting from various causes, such as infection, genetic defect, or environmental stress, and characterized by an identifiable group of signs or symptoms.
  2. A condition or tendency, as of society, regarded as abnormal and harmful.
  3. Obsolete. Lack of ease; trouble.
I would think #2 and #3 would apply in the case of addiction.  Probably #3 the most.  
 
User Mood
Stressed

Message Emote
blank
June 30, 2006, 8:15 pm PDT

diffent addiction

I have an addiction that is is a little differnt then drugs .My addiction is anger it has cost me my marrige and almost losing mt two boys.It landed me im jail  and now i have to see my klids at a vistation center . over the last 8 mounths i have stuggled to control it buyt some time little things just set me off. it i let so fare out of control i hurt people  that dont deverse to be treated that why and have hurt my shelf.
 
First | Prev | 21 | 22 | 23 | 24 | 25 | 26 | 27 | 28 | 29 | 30 | Next | Last