Topic : 08/21 Ask Dr. Phil & Robin with JCPenney Jam

It is true there are sometime little material rewards for doing what is right but that is not why most people do what is right in the first place.

It is really hard to judge people that appear on this show based on 30 second well edited clips of their lives.  I would expect that there is generally more to the story then what is seen on TV.

So if your nieces or nephews showed up on your door step needing a place to live you would send them packing if there was not enough room in your house?  Or are you saying you would let them stay but would not go looking for hand outs from others to help care for them?

I don't think he rewards BAD BEHAVIOUR - I think he did a very nice thing for those people and many others on his show - believe me having had problems bring up five boys years ago and some good years and bad years I would have loved to have had a "Dr. Phil" in my neighbourhood that I could have reached out to.  I deserve a lot of things but unfortunately have not been so lucky to benefit and most of the time I feel good that he is able to help so many people that deserve it.  Good Luck to them and Congratulations Dr.Phil I love your show and wish you had been around when I needed you.     KEEP UP THE GOOD WORK! 

unconventional sex. i'm up for it too. my hubby has to schedule me in, in between his video games and more video games. he doesn' t 'go down-town' but i'm suppose to preform oral for him. he told me to get a woman to do the job. not a problem. i welcome all applicants. i have always been attracted to women and have probably had more sexual relationships with women then i've had with men! if the children aren't getting hurt, my husband isn't affected by it and encourages me, i'm doing it.  

i just don't know where to find a woman interested in the same endeavors that i am interested in. especially in my town.  

go for it girl! just don't involve the kids...it there are any. 

I really enjoy these shows, and like the fact that Robin is there to give advice too. I will definately watch! Can't wait to see it!!! 

19 years ago I divorced a man who had molested his daughter before we were married.  Second marriage for both of us.  He did not tell me but I suspected something was not right before the marriage.  He convinced me I had evil thoughts and it was nothing going on even when they went camping in his van alone and slept on the back bunk.  We married and 3 years later his mother called me and told me his daughter had confessed to her about the situation with her Dad.  Her Dad then told me it happened when his daughter 15years old crawled in bed with him while his wife was away.  He never asked for forgiveness or thought it was really wrong.  He said he never penetrated her.  After the divorce I could not get it straight in my mind why I could not forgive him as I have had to be forgiven by God for things in my life.  Dr. Phil recently stated "that any marriage entered with deception could not last."  That did it for me.  My marriage was entered with deception and I was not the one deceiving.  Thank you Dr. Phil. 

  i can understand the husband , but i  no longer have a drive,41 and diabetic. kids are in bed early and in their room. stress and my weight are a huge factor.  

 is there any way to find out if either of my kids are prodigies? 

What is it with so many people these days that want relationships with others that are their childrens age?  I just don't get it! My daughter (single mother, 23) had a guy that was my age (44) interested in her. He ended up doing something that upset her so the relationship went no farther then them talking, however, he definatly wanted more.  

I think this is very hard for me to deal with because my ex-husband who was 34 at the time, ended up with a 16 year old that was engaged and pregnant by my son. 

Please help me understand this madness (my feelings). 

The one woman has gotten through life on her looks. Is that really something to be proud of? When these two women compete with eachother for a size zero, it makes me feel enormous at a size 8 . I have no idea how tall they are, but a size 2 or 0 is tiny for nearly everyone.  I wonder what goes through thier minds when they are out and about and see someone who is larger than they are...are they disgusted?  I have much more respect for someone who looks closer to fourty than twenty when they are 40..it just seems more natural...is it really making yourself beautiful if it's obvious that it's fake?  I know, I know...I don't live with these women, and so on, but it still bothers me that they are unhappy with themselves at a size two. It also seems like all thier competition is physical. When the 15 yr old girl brings a boyfriend home, is her step mother going to try to win his approval as well?