Messages By: suzfreed

Quote From: trisda

I am one of the men you are speaking about. I am responsible for my actions and take full accountability for them. Its hard when you were only taught one way all your life. If everyone keeps turning their back on men like myself how are we ever going to realize that we have problems and get the help that we need. Thank God I found a woman who has not turned her back on me but saw the good man under the pain I inflict on others only trying to truly understand the reasoning behind it. I am so glad that she trusts and believes in me and that there is help out there for men like us if we seek it. We have a right to feel free and happy and not live the same way we were taught as children. Granted we have only been married for 2 months, we have been together for 4 years. Thank God for God and forgiveness so we can leave the past behind and go on and live successful, functioning lives. Im not one of the men on the show that has threatened her life or has used physical violence but I have verbally destroyed her and I am not saying that one is worse then the other, they all are wrong, Woman should always feel like a queen and be respected. Every day is a struggle for me but with God in my life, I truly feel I can change because it is only thru God that miracles can occur. And if you watch the show you will see that all of the couple portrayed are christians and wanted freedom from the disfunction in their lifes. Every day will be a struggle but I am up for the battle and with patience and communication I feel I can turn this around and have a very successful marriage. I do thank you for your oppinion and comments.