Messages By: dw20052

    There has been this kind of behavior going on for years. It's called leveling and no one has come up with a cure. When the parents do this they believe they are giving their children the benifits of there limited knowledge. I have seen a very loving father call his child stupid and  

 was shocked. I hope to get his family to see this show.  As for the women who feels cheated because of her husbands health,  I'm sure he feels just as cheated because the marriage vows go for both of you. When are we as a society going to ask more from our behavior. We as a culture are selfcentered and can do no wrong.  

 How do you explain this kind of behavior? Children learn from their parents. They are sweet and adorable until someone close to them acts in a selfish manner. Children learn from parents. Those who want to laugh and make fun at my comments are at the center of my comments. 

 I have your show on automatic record  so I very rarely miss a show.  In 1989 I suffered a stroke and lost EVERYTHING. It took me 10 years  to become comfortable with my life. You and Robin every year will choose a topic and your show and sponsers will bring some hope back in their lives. It's been less than six months and the help is pouring in.  If I sound a tad  out of sorts it's not because of jealousy it's that where was all that generousity when I lost everything. The rest of society only bands together when it looks good. As a christian I am no longer jealous. My hope is to not forget those who will suffer today and tommorrow. I hope who ever deletes this will remember them. 

  Steve is a tortured man who has trouble dealing with his own past.  I have never remarried because I have lost faith in how todays woman grabs control of a relationship and uses the power to poison how things are to be.  Men  are  human first and when you have a loss of a child it more often then not destroys relationships.  I am an angry person today and day after day it gets worse. There is no way to replace what has been lost. Over the past years women have created problems in the home and it is the man who is the villanized. We have no idea how to react when cornered. We were taught to provide and not  argue with  women it's rude.  Now show after show is a rehash of women goin poor me.  When it becomes apparent then hopfully  the women will begin to act like women. Couples have children and when they are out of control it's the mans fault.  Children are with fathers 25% of their youth but it his fault because he is man.  No, this is not true in a larger amount of homes but it is true.  The no father figure or handicapped did not turn me to crime. Yes I have my moments and I thank God for watching over me.  I have all kinds of exscuses for being  abusisve and those reasons had me walk away from my family.   I still live as a single man and hope one day to be reunited with my daughter.  

 I do like the Dr. Phil and  I find this an interesting subject. I know of someone who when he was 18 was in an accident that put him in a coma for a week. Him and a friend were involved and the passenger only suffered minor injuries. Know anyone who drives one of these deathtraps should be institutionalized. I am sure that anyone arrogant enough to ride one of these things deserves anything that comes there way. While on one remember that a motorcycle weighs on an average 450 lbsl, a car 4500 lbs, Where do you want to be on a dark night when a tire goes? 

  Yes I am asking, what is going on here? I have not seen my daughter for 19 years. Before I left I had taken our family from poor and suicidal to educated and comfortable. I did this on my own, no help from her other than to be complained at for it not being better.  I am disabled and it takes alot of strength to make it thru each day, yet my wife would always have me run to the store the minute I got home. The things we needed always were an emergency in one way or another.  I finally had it when one day it had been really hard and all I wanted was my couch.    

It always is put on men as our inability to control our anger and never is the woman questioned. We men put our hearts into a relationship and if the women creates an unhealthy inviornment. I cannot believe that every abusive relationship is always looked upon as us men not being in control of our emotions.  Where is it stated that MEN are always in control? It in my mind  the  thought of loosing control that angers us.  Women have taken the roll of the abused and smile all the way to the bank. They loose nothing, if the relationship ends it is the man that goes. Then by paying to keep her happy one may get to visit the kids.  Yes my heart breaks at any young girl being abused only now my thoughts are tempered by experiance.   

Dr. Phil I hope your two boys have learned how to choose a good woman that will be  their wifes and mother to their children. Don

   How come people think this is about HATE? I know about this kind of RAGE, and it is about expectation. When a parent has kids they have this picture of how it should be, when it's not then anger is their logical attack.   

   I left my family when I finally saw it come to a head. Now this sounds as an excuse but it is real. I grew up on American TV shows, Father Knows Best, Leave It To Beaver and Patty Duke Show to name a few. I saw a FATHER who was loved and respected yet his character was the one who was warned of when trouble was in the air. The hug and kiss as he walked in the door was what I wanted when  I came home. Not a "you need to go out again because I need this". This was a game my wife would play, she knew how I hurt physically and all she could do was send me out. The hug and kiss I expected was never there, I even explained "if you would greet me as if you cared then I would not care.  Yet every day I come home and the first thing out is not HI HOW WAS YOUR DAY,  it's I need this at the store.  

     It has been 20 years since I left and one thing is clear to me, my anger was not justified and I  knew that I would kill my daughters mother if I did not go.   

    I worked as an adolesant counselor and felt in conttrol of my actions untill I came home.  I can rationalize  how  things were yet for my anger there is only one reason.   It was not how I envisioned my life and felt as if I was being cheated.