Messages By: hmeow29

I understand the devastation that can happen from a disaster. My family lived and survived through a F5 tornado, which destroyed everything they owned. My mother and I were the only ones who could clean up after they removed the bodies. I pray everyday that these families will be able to get through the most trying time of their lives. It is very hard to understand how this could happen to so many people. My hope, prayer, and wish is that we as neighbors and a nation will remember to keep on helping months to years from now. This will take a long time to be over with, and it will seem endless, but I promise that it will get better. You may think that I'm crazy and don't know what I'm talking about, but I do. Please don't give up, and keep going. Show all these people who doubt that you will survive and prosper, THAT YOU WILL LIVE AND THRIVE AGAIN. God Bless and know that I along with many others are behind you in prayer.  

                                                                             Mary

                                                                              Alabaster Alabama 

Very true, and it makes me sick to think that the media can get away with this. I know freedom of speech and all, but there should be a limit or something. 

My worst fear is tornado's. Ever sinse my mother went through a F5 in 1998, I've been so afraid of storms. I saw the after math and knowing that the neighbors I grew up with died on my mothers front porch steps, and in a tree in the front yard. I just can't deal with storms. If I know we're going to have bad weather, I start to freak out and worry. It's gotten to the point I have to take nerve pills to make it through, and then it's through tears and prayers. Last night we had bad storms and I did'nt go to bed until 3 in the morning. I'll start twitching and rocking and crying. It's a terrible thing when a almost 35 year old women reduces herself to utter misery to make it through. If anyone has any suggestions on how to deal with it, please let me know. 

                                                                                              Mary from Alabama 

I have three girls. Ages almost 12, 14, 15. I've always considered myself cautious, but alot say in strict. But I'm about to let my oldest date. I worry about this topic because, what if they cover it up or abuse their date also? My oldest does have a temper, and when she gets real upset she can really blow her top. So how do I know what's happening. I mean what other signs are there besides the obvious ones? Plus what if they hide it from us? I hope that this show explains a little more detail then what you can see, and to approach them with the right questions . I know he only has so little time to do his show. So if anyone out there can give some advice. I thank you very much.

                                                                                                      Mary

It is to young to date at 15. I was going to allow her to see boys only with a group of friends. I thought that would be a good start. Maybe I'm wrong. She is such a loner I thought if she started to date within a group of friends she would become more friendlier, and less grouchy. Like I said before she has major attuide, so I'm trying to get her to be a  happier person.

                                                                                            Mary

I'm a avid watcher of your show, and I was very upset about this show. And how you handled it.  Number 1. You claimed you were concerned about the children, it didn't sound that way. Number 2. You let the grandparents have almost all the say. Which most of what they said were not founded in any way. They were rude and obnoxious and I can't believe you let them talk that way to you or the mother.  They treated the mother as if she was thier child and kept correcting her as if she were 13. Really these grandparents should thank thier lucky stars that they have been able to visit thier grandaughter. If the grandparents do take this to court to get visitaton, maybe they should pay the child support that their son is suppose to be paying. Number 3. I feel like this mother is a grown woman and living on her own. She should be allowed to make her own choices. Even if she wants to be a lesbian. Number 4. In the clips you showed on the show today, that showed the children, they looked very well taken care of and happy. Maybe these grandparents are putting words in this childs mouth, which you know can happen. So Dr. Phil whats up with the way you handled this? That mother should Not have to go to counseling for the grandparents problems. She's not part of these peoples lives. Also it should show her validity of character for agreeing to the counseling . Thank you for allowing me, my thoughts on this subject.

                                                                                          Mary