Messages By: arakeel83

You need to take care of yourself, you sound like you are getting your life on track. I know you love him, I love mine too. We have taken a "break" I was right back at his door step. I love my man like crazy, but I love myself too. I'm currently in my 4th year of college for elementary education, I thought I was stressed before. I know that I love him and he loves me and if we are supposed to be together than we will, it may be in 6 monthes or a few years. You need to look at yourself in the mirror what makes you happy? and don't say your BF. My best advice is do what makes you happy. This may mean taking up a new hobby or new job. I have discovered sometimes it is okay to be selfish when it comes to your happiness. At age 22 I thought I had my life all planned out, guess what it didn't go my way. I'm okay with this knowing that I'm happy. Set goals for yourself, this may mean short-term... I will make the bed or long-term... I will finish my degree. You understand. Persue these goals, he will be one of those goals in there, maybe not on the top of the list. Patience.

I am a 22 yr old college student working my way by serving at a local resturant. Over the last 6 monthes I've really started to fall for my boss, I've worked around him for almost 2 yrs. Sometimes it seems like he is flirting with me however has made it clear that he doesn't date employee's. I have another year of college and enjoy my serving job, should I give up and move on or be patient and see if he comes around?  

-Tired of balancing a tray on my head for attention-