Go for it
What I would do is write to her father ask him what you should do. Let him know that you would like him to be in his child life. Then sit down with your child tell her that your daddy is away but that he will be back someday but that you can write to him if you like. Tell her that sometimes poeple do things that they should not do and just like when I punish you for you doing wrong your daddy did wrong and is being punish. Let her know that her daddy does love her. Put the ball in her court. thing will work out. have faith that your child will work to right choices.
