Messages By: rjc1953

 
I'm confused here.  Who is the child and who is the parent?  Children have to learn that everything is not handed to them in life, nor should it be, they also should learn disappointment because it prepares them for life in the real world.  I think every parent should only look at themselves to blame when they end up with a spoiled child or if it was the grandparents doing the spoiling, where were they while it was going on. Yes, children should get  a little more than we did, but in the long run when they are out in this world on their own , they need to know how to  depend on themselves and not others.  It will also build character and a desire to succeed in life.

 

 I see red everytime my oldest daughter calls. She constantly complains about her  job, children and any part of her life. She is a habitual liar and has been since her early teens. Making up lies about her friends until she lost them.  She has been married 5 times, all were thier falts.  She dresses like a  teenager  ,tells  any one who will listen what a horrible life she has had which is fabrication. She is almost forty and none of my family or relatives invite her to any thing because of the scenes she causes or stories she will tell them. Her children cannot have anyone over because of her and can't wait until they can move out.
I have tried to talk to her so many times that you lose count.  Her answer to me is mind my own business and stay out of her life.