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January 27, 2006, 12:38 pm CST

The British

 Being of another heritage meself(Irish) I too have been looked down on because I'm a born Yank and most Yanks the Brits do not like,personally I have many british mates and some do have the pompus attitude but for me I'm used to it,the lass thats married to the young man and lives in a trailer,well boohoo,so have I,if her parents are that much agains't the young man then why in hades did she marry him?????does she feel she married below her station in life?if so then by all means go back to the UK  just so her parents can pick out her husband for her,it burns me arse to know that some brits still think they are better than us Yanks but yet they come here,buy land,start a business in my land and still have the nerve to look down they'er almight nose's to us!
I go to the UK/Ireland every year and even tho I be Irish heritage even the Irish in my mother country at times treat me with a snobby attitude but then me being a mick I give it right back!
Aye the lass needs to go back where she came from,I don't know her mum or her sire but already I don't like them,hope they read this!
 
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January 27, 2006, 5:15 pm CST

Ye are a wonderful mum!

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What a heartwarming beautiful story!! You have taught your children what is truly valuable in life. And so wonderful that your son is passing the tradition to his own family.  Bless your daughter!! I know you will treasure the picture she drew for many years to come.  I know the trials and tribulations you are going through, as I too have a handicapped daughter.
 I know ye and I see differently regarding the first couple but putting that aside lass I am most proud and evious of ye,need more mums like ye lass,and my heart felt compassion towards ye daughter,ye are a good  and strong example of wot a parent should be,wish I had been as lucky growing up,keep up the good work lass!
 
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January 27, 2006, 5:18 pm CST

Amen to that

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First part of the show with the rich woman and poor man - get divorced.  She will never be truly satisfied or happy with the kind of salaries he's going for.  Get divorced now before bringing a child into the mix. Did you see the way she had her back to her husband the whole time they were on stage?  Also - as she is married to an American doesn't that make her a citizen?  Why is it so hard or illegal for her to work - millions of migrant workers do it every single day - wish they'd talked more about that. 

  

Second part with credit card-o-holic - get serious!  I do not understand why people feel they are priviledged or deserve lifestyles they cannot afford.  I think it is cruel the way credt companies keep extending credit to people who cannot afford themsleves.  Companies know the incomes of these customers, so why extend outrageous credit limits? Sure they're making $$ one way or the other - bottom line is the rest of us are the ones really paying. Congress should mandate a cap on credit based on reported income - that would help "police" so many of the irresponsible spenders. 

  

First time writer - just my humble opinion... 

 Aye I agree with ye 100% especially  about bring a wee bairn into the marriage,bet that would go over well with her parents!
 
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May 10, 2006, 1:25 pm CDT

Bad memories of my father!

My gosh but this show brought back memories of the day my sire stole me from me mum but Allene and Mollies mum did not have to wait for almost 9 yrs before she was reunited with her girls,the day my mum found me was a day I thought would be the grandest day of me life but was not,I was 4 when my sire took me from her and 12 when she got me back,wish I could say I was happy to see her but I wasn't,I was scared because she was taking me out of my enviroment I had been placed in by the state of Florida,was a girls camp(E-Nini-Hassee) founded by the Eckerd,s whom owned many drug stores,I recall one incident on our way from Fla to Okla and that was when our GreyHound bus pulled into a wee cafe and mum and I were sitting in a booth ...now mind ye I had not seen the likes of different types of women and wot they wore but this woman came into the cafe with a beehive hairdoo,bright blue eye shadow,go-go boots and a verra short mini skirt and I was looking at this woman when mum told me not to look at her,well I did again not meaning to and mum slapped me straight across me face,I had not been hit by anyone for 4 yrs and then she does,at that exact moment I knew her and I were not going to get along,I was already set in me ways and knew of a different life style,no makeup,no Jeans,,no music,books and the telly,when I got to Okla mum and I walked into her home and I was then introduced to my now former step-father,another bad moment,as soon as mum went into another room this man pushed me agains't a wall with his hand around my throat and told me in no uncertain terms I would not ever come between him and my mum and then I got to deal with a sister I didn't know I had,she was 3 at the time and I hated her due to I was made to stay in the house unless school was open,I ran away twice and finally was sent to some group home in Pryor,Ok,I hated it...
I guess wot I'm trying to say is I'm on the side of Allene and Mollie and not their mum,and  I also went through the same thing with my 3 youngest children whom I have written to Dr.Phil about,my situation is alittle more unique though because my children I are 1/2 Native American Indian and when I filed for divorce after 10 yrs of marriage my children were taken from me and given to the tribe and then to my ex-husband,I begged to have my kids but it's a federal law and so I lost my kids....
I hope those girls get to live in a Mennonite commnity but also get to see their mum whenever they want!
 
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May 10, 2006, 1:29 pm CDT

I agree

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Has anyone noticed how the older one seems bent on controlling the younger? That bothers me. 

 

Often in bad marriages and most divorces, alliances build up. When I saw those girls, I got the impression that the one with glasses was allied with her father and the cute one was allied with their mother.  That is normal behaviour for kids in a war zone. 

 Especially when Dr.Phil pointed out that one girl was flat,does that mean distant????
 
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May 10, 2006, 1:32 pm CDT

I understand

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father custody, mother custody .. the point is, no parent should alienate their children from the other parent.  My daughter has made a choice not to associate with me, due to her religion.  That's her choice.  I respect her.  What hurts is the loss. 

  

That's all I have to say. 

 Aye star weaver,the same happened with me but it was not their faith but the ICWA!
 
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May 10, 2006, 1:37 pm CDT

?????

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..The dad taught them to disregard their own feeling, including their own love for their Mom and abandon her, without a cal even to see if they were OK...OH that's right no phones acording to their God!!! 

  

 This and stealing them, breaking the Law is dead wrong, period. He didn't have to take them out of their life to teach them values. They were probably good kids when he took them anyway. 

 The Dad has SHOWN them how to lie and steal, judge and disregard others, as he has, and to "have a good reason to break laws" how is this OK. 

.Mom had to deal with their dad, no wonder she had a break down, assuming the information we have from the dad is correct! The Mom stated he lied about her mental health. No doubt if she was a nut case our Dr. Phill wouldn't have taken her on to help. he "ain't no dummy" :-) Nor would the courts be giving her custody! 

Would an electric ventilator be "worldly" if the child needed one 

 Pray tell,wot did the girls steal????
 
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October 7, 2006, 12:04 pm CDT

The Boys!

From my own personal experience having step-children its a hard long road once ye have made the wrong decisions or choices,and to me the oldest step son has a big heart and forgiving heart towards Jessica,me...well had my step-mum spoke to me like she did to the boy I would'eve told her to sod off and go take care of her own issues which seems to be many,the husband from wot I saw on the show will not change nor her,he is too embittered and will suffocate her with all his questions about her infidelites,like me mum used to say(Once a cheater always a cheater,)she would know because my sire did that to her many times.

These 2 need to part ways for good,nothing positive will come of them staying together unless some kind of powers that be steps in to help,they both act the victim,both of them have foul mouths and tempers,if my husband ever called me a full blown slut I would cold cock him into 2020 but thats me.

I am worried about the boys and the outcome from all this muck!

 
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October 7, 2006, 12:11 pm CDT

Finally

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Help the boys is right - This woman is a real  treat.  Does she really believe that no one can see through her manipulation and drama? She had no intention of saving this marriage. I believe she is trying to make him so miserable that he leaves her.  Then she can remain the victim - isn't that what she's about.  How pathetic. Forget the parents and save the boys.
Finally someone who makes sense,I too wish the boys to have help,that woman is way out there if she thinks that the million of viewers did not see through her,both of them are playing the victim,tis sickening,my heart went out to the step-son,he does not need to have that tart in his life or his dads but me thinks the dad will try to hang onto her tho she doesn't want any part of saving the marriage,the mother in-law was a hoot bless her heart,these boys need to be placed in some kind of home where they will feel wanted and not having to go through they'er dads drama,tis not fair to them,makes me sick knowing thousands of children every bloody day get caught in the crossfire.
 
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October 8, 2006, 3:43 pm CDT

Internet Porn!

Okay,tis hard for me to speak of this but am tired of being (NOT IN THE MOOD) for my husband when it comes to intimacy,be it affection or in the bedroom,I know I am going thru the change of life which doesn't help matters but back in 2002 our computer had crashed and we got it fixed and so while I was trying to get back some of my e-mail mates to write to and also my buddies on my messenger list I had gone into my husbands archives because we have mutual friends and wot I found left me feeling betrayed and angry,he had a online conversation with a woman,twas verra sexually graphic and she had even sent him live nude shots of herself and in one of the shots my husband told her she look good enough to eat,I was too dam angry to be hurt or to cry,now prior to all this muck happening my husband and I back when this happened were only a live-in couple and we had not gotten intimate until 6 mos after getting together and there was 3 times I made the first move to be intimate,all 3 times he turned me down and since then I have not made the first move,anyway getting back to the topic when I discovered this online conversation he did not one time mention he had a girlfriend living with him so I took it upon myself to inform her,also it did not help knowing she was attainable,she just lived in the next town over,wot I don't understand when this happened my husband knew I had past issues with porn and be cheated on several times by my last husband,I'm on my 3rd marriage......I got friends that ell me they and they'er partners do porn and as long as its done openly between the 2 partners there is nothing wrong with it,hellooooooooooooo,porn is wot got me 2nd divorce, here I go digressing,anyway by nature I am not a trusting person,tis why I waited 6 mos before he and I got intimate,I just needed to make sure this one would work out,now I have no sexual desire at all,he tells me today after one time reminding him of the times he turned me down that he would never turn me down again,too late,we got married 2 yrs ago due to a cancer scare and even tho I love him dearly I want no part of intimacy in any way shape or form,he has a high sex drive and I fear he may stray tho he says he never would,now I know I will sound hypocritical when I say this but I caved in and bought him a porn dvd so he would  not bother me for sex,does it work? (NOT),HE WANTS ME MORE THAN EVER AND THE FEELING IS TOTALLY NOT MUTUAL,I can't stand being touched,I hate kissing and even holding hands,can I ever get my drive back???

Help!!!!!

 

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