Messages By: pmg006

I see this as....if he didn't want to be a father then he should have thought about that before he had sex. He had the options of wearing the condom and not having sex at all. In having sex and then taking off the condom, I believe that he gave up his constitutional rights. There were a lot of precautions that they both should have take, but it wan't done. I do know a little about this because I got pregnant by accident when I was 18. He wore the condom and the condom broke. I made the choice to have sex. The way I see it is that the child didn't ask to be made so the child had no choice in the matter. That is one reason why I see that abortion will never be an option. I had my child and now I have a little girl that just turned 3. The coincidence of the matter is that her name is Elizabeth, too. She may have been a accident, but I will never tell her that because she is the best thing in my life. I am proud to say that her daddy was man enough to stay by my side and is still her together with us.

I think that he is horrible in feeling the way that he feelis toward her because he will never understand how it feels to be told by a doctor that you will never have children. I have three friends right now that can not have children. One of them had to have a historectomy when she was 12 because she had so many problems. It tortures her everyday that she will never be able to have children and there are people in this world that don't even think twice before they say they don't want a child. I am on his ex-girlfriend's side because this child to her is more that likely a miracle that she never thought that she was ever going to have. She now gets that luxury of having a child that so many people in this world don't get because they do have medical problems.

Well I know what it is like to try loose weight. I use to have a body to die for but now I hate seeing myself in a swim suit. I gained most of this weight when I got pregnant with my little girl. I put on 72lbs when I was pregnant with her. I went from being 145 to 216. Then about two weeks later I went up to 236. I have tried and tried with many different weight loss programs. I lost only 7lbs. with one of them and kept it off. This past summer I lost 15lbs. without trying to do anything about it. I was just tired of pushing and pushing and never getting any results. I was starting to get back in the groove of loosing weight and now I have been shut down. I am so depressed now because my doctor recently diagnosed me with high blood pressure, anxiety problems, and is trying to find out if I have a thyroid disorder. She has completely said that I am not aloud to exercise or over exert myself at all. She says that I have to wait until she finishes finding what else might be wrong with me. This really agrivates me because I want to get back to what I was before I got pregnant or at least close to it and it hasn't worked yet. The only that is good about me being big though is that my husband has told me that he will love my no matter what I look like because he says that I will always be beautiful. This is a great thing to know and it would be a great thing for any woman should know.