Quote From: lauren8I have two young children that I have brought in the bed with me sometime or another. I think if the dad has a problem with the way the wife handles the children at night than he should help her not criticize her methods. He should get up and rock, feed the child or whatever works to get the child to sleep and put him or her in their crib. The mother obviously has problem seperating with the child but I bet she would love a little sleep by herself. The father seems to forget what a tough job it is to be at home with children all day.
Hi
I do believe in bonding but there are limits. whether it be the man or the wife through out the day you are bonding with your kids during that time. when it is time for bed it is time for bed. now that doesnt mean take the kids to bed with you,because it can cause over bonding and when you try to seperate your kids from your side it can bring some rough consequences.
Put the kids to bed (there own) and leave your bed for you and your mate,the only time a child should stay in bed with the parents if they get scared (thunderstorms,lighting,strong winds,cold) and so forth. please i am not the perfect parent but i was done like that and i never sufferd when i was younger.
