Thankyou for making me feel a little better and I will sure try your advice. I want to be patient but I also am afraid if we don't see one other that he will just as soon forget me. He is worth trying to wait until I know what he wants but I don't want to feel used or confused.
You sound like me....my long-distance relationship with my "boyfriend" has put me in a similar situation. I've been quite stressed over the whole thing. We met in the summer but I moved shortly after we met. We talked daily on the phone and it really seemed to me that I had found my 'soulmate' or at least someone who felt the same way I did! He came to visit me last month, and now I hardly hear from him...he says that a long-distance relationship is too hard; he doesn't want to move where I am; he's settled where he is right now; blah, blah blah. I think that I made too much of it, except he certainly gave me a lot of encouragement the whole time! When I do talk to him, he is still saying things that gives me the impression he wants to continue, yet his actions say differently. I feel like an idiot...I'm 44 and I feel like a stupid teenager who went gaga over a guy. I wanted to be myself and just let it all hang out (so to speak!) with my feelings, and I think that is where I went wrong. Anyway...good luck with your situation, and I hope things get better for you. And just remember...you're the most important person in your life.