Messages By: mstammi

Children that display such severe disconnect in emotions, compassion, that have no care of life, only want to destroy people around them need to be receiving serious help and it should not be "Outpatient" help. They should not be allowed around average life routines and the people involved. It is obvious these children can not handle "normal" anything and to allow them to be around people, knowing that at any moment the child may "snap" is endangering all people's safety and lives and the parents will be held responsible for allowing the child ,(who has severe mental and emotional life issues that threaten the very lives of others,)to be around people and endanger them. There is nothing "normal" about children who have such a serious disconnect that threatens to kill anyone, children who make fun of anyone who gets hurt or displays any emotion, children who don't seem to have a discernment of right and wrong, good and bad.

They may never may be able to return to a "normal" life. Parents need to accept that and not feel guilty if they know they had NO involvement in anyway(abuse, drugs,ect) of their child's predictiment or lack of mental state. It is a heavy burden and the families need prayer.

The school district will be held liable for allowing anyone to get hurt by that child. They clearly are aware of the child's deep and violent outbursts. The teachers are ignoring the behavior because they are 1.) afraid themselves to speak up or 2.) were told not to speak up and to deal with it. The district needs to provide tutoring at home or in a specialized school for this child. Yes, everyone has a right to an education but not at the expense of a child taking a life. I am a Daycare Director who had the most lovable boy in a class but this child feels no pain and laughs when he hurts people. He choked me, he trips kids, headbutts them, throws himself on the floor, ect. I finally asked an outsider Therapist to observe the boy in the class and she was shocked. A 5 page report was written  up and he was released from the Daycare after we had several meetings with the mother and sent her letters. She tried to sue but I documented everything. When I sent letters, made phone calls, what the child did everyday. I was called a "racist, horrible educator and let people pick on her son."  The case was dropped and eventually the mother apologized to the Board.

There are way too many parents who are in denial that there may be something wrong or that their child has an disability. In this case, I believe the parents both had learning disabilities, passed on to the children and the younger boy may have other issues but I am not a Doctor so I won't make up what I don't know. But, I do know that something is off with that child.

And the Therapist agreed with me. So, Contact the School Board, ask for an outside Doctor to be brought in to do several observations. CPS may be called because other children are getting hurt and the parents will not take precautionary measures to prevent their child from harmng others. Get the School Board involved. Let the Principal know.  Let me know what happens.