Quote From: uk_macman1hi all..
this will probably grate on some of you but i felt it was time to bust a few myths surrounding adoption...
I am a 45 year old male adoptee and have studied adoption for over 25 years now and would like to say this, a lot of you here state that you are christians , how can that be when you are realy breaking a fundemental SIN..THOU SHALL NOT STEAL...yes folks adoption is theft, its theft of identity for the adopted child, its theft to the mother that has relinquished her child and is theft of a life...
Most mothers (and they are mothers, not birth mothers, do normal kids call there mothers birth???, and they are not biological,thats a program on a washing machine) they are MOTHERS , most mothers are young scared and vunerable when they go into labour and a lot are DRUGGED before they give birth and when they wake there child is gone and they are told "we thought your child would be better off with other people"...<<<< WHO HAS ANY RIGHT TO THAT DECISION...Social wreckers lie to the mothers stating there child will be in an open adoption , then suddenly the mother looses contact once the adoptive couple decide to move and close the adoption,leaving that child and mother permanantly seperated.
Most mothers are coersed into giving there child up and then years later they are told they have NO RIGHTS to find that said child whe there situation has changed.
Not all mothers are crack house whores that didnt care for there babies, thats a myth that social wreckers tell so its easier for that agency can sell that baby...
What price would any of you place on your own childs head ...
why do you think its ok to BUY a child...children are not a possession after all, they are gift to the MOTHER not a bunch of infertile people. Infertility is gods own way of saying its not your turn, why then does it give you the right to permanantly abuse the mother and child by seperation.
FACT..a child sufferes PTSD the second it is seperated from there mothers, this might not show itself for years to come but most if not all will suffer trauma in later life...
FACT..The adopted child has to lead a manifested life, a life designed by strangers.
FACT...the adopted child looses his/hers identity when names are changed and are made to live a certain way that is not the way the child should live.
Fact.. the mothers of these babies are looked down apon and are basicaly treated like low lifes, all for the greed of others...
Fact there are on adverage over 60thousand black market babies stolen from hospitals and are sold on the black market yearly, all for the sake of greed of the adoptive couples.
FACT , why are severly diabled children left in care homes and not adopted, healthy white children syndrome !!!
And lastly this ,
FACT ...the child knows he or she is adopted and feels outcast,strange around others, and sufferes anxiety and mental health issuse consisting of segreagtion fears, rejection fears (which stems from birth) and commitment fears ,health problems later in life because the medical records of the parents are kept from the adoptive couples..I was born with a congenital heart problem (Cardio-Myopathy) and this was left out of my records in case i wasnt good enough to be adopted...
Ive read most of the posts here and there are hardl any sentances that talks about the well being of the relinquished child, its all about what YOU WANT , what you are and what you can give...
take a step back, put yourself into the adopted childs shoes and try to understand what he/she goes through on a daily basis rather than than your selfish attitude towards adoption, children are human beings not possessions or fashion items to make your family look good...
Adoption is THEFT ....
please go to http://groups.msn.com.Adoptese and read the horror storys from mothers,adopted people.
www.adoptioncrossroads.com read the true statements from mothers and children screwed up by adoption..
my words are bound to cause upset but its about time some of you looked at the bear facts of what you are doing to innocent mothers and children....
Graham...Lost in 1964, still lost in 2008 caused by adoption...
I can not believe what I just read. Wow. Yes I'm one of those women who are unable to have children. And would Love the chance to be a mother. And yes there are some horror stories out there. That I really dont think I could handle hearing about. But there are some good things that come from adopting too. A child has a chance to have some type of normal life. I believe you can be open and explain in a way that doesnt make them feel like a cast away. A since of belonging doesnt have to have the same DNA...That comes from love and compassion, understanding. And god yes some mistakes along they way. But in the end you have raised a well rounded Adult.
How can you be so cold hearted as to say that couples unable to have children dont deserve children. Thats just not right. But then again you probly can have children if you dont already have them. Thank your blessings that you dont have to ever feel that emptiness that only one feels when you find out you cant have a child. You never get over it. You just live day to day. But always hope. Thats all you got.
