Messages By: pens2007

I do not understnad why you are still there??  Go home to your parents.  You could get on your feet there.  WHY HAVE YOU NOT TOLD YOUR MOTHER OR FATHER ABOUT THIS????  My parents would help me out of any stituation I had.    What is wrong witih you; you have children to think of, they do not need to be around a person like this.  Please get out, go underground or stay around plenty of people. 

Hope you have heard what people are saying on this board and you get out.

Karen

I used to live next to a bully neighbor and it is like living daily on eggshells!!  You never knew what was going to trigger her....I used to play the wicked witch of the west theme in my head when I would see her start over to my house to inflict some kind of psychotic slurs onto me.  The sad part was, I knew she was unhappy with her life and herself and it almost seemed to stem from jealousy.  Like the first woman on the show said today, she wasn't part of the "click". 

It does amaze me how so many people seem to have all this time and energy to devote to negative situations.  Isn't there more to life than arguing, cussing  and fighting?  I compare it to all the slander and negative websites people seem to have endless time on their hands to post on.  What a drag....I feel sorry for the neighbors who are probably in a serious catch 22 when it comes to moving.

All of these people are drama queens and kings. If Dr. Phil takes the fighting and cussing away, I don't think they'd have anything to say! The silence would be deafening to them.

The actual biological father should have to pay support.  If the child and former "father" wishes to continue a good and established relationship, then it is of best interest to do so.  That does not mean financial support to the mother.  She has already done him enough wrong.

Im not saying the MIL is right, but the DIL needs to shut up.  It's been my experience when all a person can do is yell, they are guilty of wrong doing themselves, just trying to divert to the other person.  Of course if the son/husband had a backbone most of these problems wouldn't exist.  My in-laws have probs with one of their dil's, simply because their son runs and tells all, but then doesnt like it when his parents speak their mind.  On the other hand, my hubby has made it quite clear our marriage is our marriage and we have no problems, but then again we do have a good marriage maybe thats why the relationship with the in-laws is so good.

I don't understand why you keep dragging these people on the show.  If my son thought I was too much trouble I would just say "fine, just don't come running to me when you need something."   Men will do anything for a woman until he marries her and lives with her a little while.  The Mother should just back off and I can almost guarantee he will be divorced from her in record time.  And it won't be long before they will want something and that is just too bad.  I have 2 sons, one in a similar situation except that I just totally stay out of it.  It kills me to see him used like he is, but he is an adult and he has to learn for himself.  I mean where do these people come from.  I'm from Oklahoma and everyone thinks we are all a bunch of hicks.  Obviously they are everywhere.

The Troll 

Dr. Phil,

       First of all thank you for doing a show that brings organ donation in the media. I am coming up on my 3 year and 7 mos. birthday of my new life. On June 24, 2004 I recieved the gift of life through a transplanted kidney. After being on Peritoneal Dialysis for just 8 mos. the day had arrived. My donor kidney was given by my sister-in-law. Since the day that my kidneys failed from PKD my attitude has been nothing but positive. My wife said to me one day that if they ask you to stand on your head and spit quarters you do everything that they ask. The doctors that worked with me were also very positive. The attitude was that dialysis was just a bridge to get to transplant. Before transplant my Creatine level was around 14.0 with less than 10% kidney funtion in one kidney only. After the transplant and till this day my Creatine level has been at or near 1.3. So people need to be aware that there is life after transplant.          Thank You! Jerry Woodbury

I don't know the actual origin of the "N" word, but it doesn't matter who uses it. 

They sound illiterate when they do.  You could be a highly educated Harvard law graduate, or

a high school drop out living on welfare.  You are in the same class when you use that ugly word.

I lose so much respect for anyone who uses it.