Messages By: bluecita23

Quote From: cijaym

How can you claim that your race is intellectually superior when the rest of us see that you're so stupid? You are SOOO insecure!  I was just going to remark that you have no original thoughts but Dr. Phil just beat me to it. If you're so smart - why is this your second marriage? Men mature, women expire? Even THAT isn't an original thought. What are you, a robot that someone just filled with one-liners? If you're so smart, how come you've relied on the rest of the world to compose your thoughts for you? Socially - you are scrambling for a double didgit IQ.

 

So what if  your wife was black? Being racist doesn't mean you HATE other races, it means you feel yours is superior ... which you do. If you were so smart you would know that. You're hoping your son married a more obedient woman than you did? I hope your son spits in his father's face and walks away after he grows up. I just hope he grows up! His father hasn't.

 

Rosanna - run! So far, you have allowed him to be this way with you, not something I understand but I don't have kids i.e. would never have a reason to stay with such a big piece of garbage. There are a million guys who would treat you better (of ALL races) and now that it's 2007 and you're living in a free country, you can even have a fulfilling life without a man if you want.

 

 

Quote From: cassidilla

I'm SOOOOOOO frustrated with the whole "one race vs. another race" issue. I try to avoid the topic all together because the issue provokes gut wrenching, jaw clenching, fist pumping reactions that are so strong i feel unable to communicate my thoughts in an adult dialogue.
first, i must say, well done, dr. phil. you've done it again. this issue is like the elephant in the room that no one wants to talk about. it's so touchy. it's so......ridiculously sensitive. it's full of hypocrisy and double standards. and dr. phil, you addressed the issue with finesse and bravery. i thought i loved you before, but now i would like you to legally adopt me.
secondly, and i dont even know if i CAN say this, but i will, because for once i would just like to SAY something on the matter instead of stomping away in a fit of rage.
My current boyfriend is obsessed with asian culture and asian women. as are a lot of my male friends. and we're all caucasian. they speak about asian women as if they are these delicate flower treasures and one should count himself as a blessed man should he catch himself an asian woman. not only do i find it highly offensive as a caucasian woman, but i feel even worse that they are objectifying a human being, a WOMAN. it's almost as if they've stripped the humanity away from these women and made them their own personal play toys.i feel protective.i want to stand in front of the woman they are ogling and shield her from their eye rapings.  i become enraged. why is this so common?? I HATE IT!!!!! Why cant we be judged as a possible mate based on my ability to be a good partner, a quality person, AN INDIVIDUAL......rather than whether or not we are a certain race???  i find this to be devestating.

Quote From: cijaym

Everyone who is having surgery  - it's up to you, I'm not planning on swaying your opinion, it's your body, your decision and your money.

 

First off - I think plastic surgery should be reserved for people who have something WRONG, especially if it interferes with their health. If a nose job restores/improves breathing or sense of smell or repairs some huge deformity then that's one thing but to just 'change how you look', I just don't like that. That's all it is, my opinion. I'm not going to tell you you're stupid to get it done - I might say you're a bit silly to think it's going to make a difference to your life but I don't have to live with a big nose or (BEAUTIFUL) Asian eyes.

 

As for Brad looking 'more caucasian'...he's Italian. When did they stop being caucasian? I'm Scottish Italian, does that mean I'm only HALF caucasian? What's my other half?

 

What did Chastity's aunt mean that she's surrounded by beautiful women and should get a nose job? She IS a beautiful woman! (On the outside, that is, I have no reason to believe the inside doesn't match.)

 

The only time I've been a member of a minority was when I was in Ethiopia for three months and even then I got swarmed and treated like royalty (because whites are all viewed as rich where I was, it was MOST embarrassing, they just had no idea how very rich THEY were!) so I don't know what it's like to live as a minority. So it's easy for me to sit here and say "you're Asian, you're beautiful, this is 2007 and in most cases the stereotypes are history" and I know that's certainly not the case. I'm not happy with my face either. Not at all but at the end of the day, it is a 'western'/white face so I don't face the prejudices so I'll never say that I understand but if my two cents counts - please, please, please, Asian women don't change your eyes. I think they're beautiful. Just concentrate on keeping the inside matching the outside and if you have all that extra money, perhaps the better plastic surgery to invest in would be to help a burn victim. THAT surgery would be much more rewarding to pay for.

Quote From: briankw

I would suggest you leave this creep. If  he believes Asians are so superior, why doesn't he marry an Asian woman?

 James said his son believes his views"By choice, not by dominance"??? Is James SO DUMB that he doesn't realise that he's his sons BIGGEST influence...how sad.

RUN away from this racist creep before we see the son on DrPhil.

Quote From: cissie88

Okay let's be HONEST, YOU are just as foolish, selfish and irresponsible as Chelsea.  You may not have had an accident YET,but you are an accident waiting to happen.  I just hope that when you do you don't  maim or kill an innocent person. And please stay in your own state.

Quote From: BestKdgTchr

I want you to take a moment and think it through.  You are a nurse, correct?  It would seem you must know SOMETHING about proper nutrition.  Perhaps you already have the answer to your dilemma and you don't even need Dr. Phil's help?

Quote From: katwage13827

I just watched the show about alcoholic mothers. I wanted to grab Heather and just hold her and tell her it would all be ok. That would be a lie of course because it won't be, not yet. It was so surreal watching that show today because I was Heather. My mother had lost my father to cancer and she fell into a bottle and never came out. I have two younger sisters that were 12 at the time and still needed someone to take care of them. I did the best I could. I raised them and paid my mother's bills. I wish to God that we would have done an intervention. But we were all so scared of her. I really don't understand why. She had stopped eating and was doing more drinking and was only 90 pounds soaking wet. But we were always just so scared of her. If we would have done the intervention and had gotten her to quit drinking then maybe we would have recognized the fact that she had a brain tumor. No sober person  would've acted that way. We just explained all the weird behavior away on her being drunk. My family is completely destroyed. Since the death of both my parents all of us six children have all gone our separate ways. Only a select few of us still talk and that is so sad. I fell down crying watching this show today, not just for Heather, but for what my family has endured, and still is. I mourn the death of what my family could have been. It is for this  reason that I have chosen to stay away from alcohol. I will never do this to my son.