Messages By: toy4bj

I can't wait to see the show. I need help and don't know where to turn or how to begin. I read a copy of T.D. Jakes "let it go" almost every day. I feel too weak and so alone. Thank you for this show.

My loving mother used money to manipulate me all of my life. As her only child she gave me a copy of her will leaving everything to me after my dad passed away.

She always blamed him for not spending money while I was growing up.

A lesson in the fast lane, late in my life. She not only changed her will, leaving me excluded but slapped me with a law suit. Promising the same things to my children and grand children.

She claims to be a Christian. I pray I am not like her. She loves only one person, herself.

I know I am an only child but this sounds just like my family. I look forward to the show & hope I find some help for myself.

My mother has used money (& things) my whole life to get her way. She loves to tell everyone what she offers me, knowing I will not accept it.

One day I needed money so I started to accept her offers. She took them all back. (no surprise, huh?)

Then she sued me & cut me out of her will all together.

She now offers it all to my children who are falling right into place. I heard her mention it to a grand daughter too. My children are very happy not seeing me & glad to be with my mother.

I can't believe my family loves money more than me.

When my mother dies & they get her money will they love me then, probably not.

I need help.

I too know your loneliness and your fears. Thank God for Alanon.

I am learning to be me all over again. Be gentle with yourself & work the 12 steps for sanity.

My entire family has been affected by alcohol.

My mother has never been there for me. I tried to be there for my 4 children but they want me out of their lives. I miss my grand daughter sooo much. I was not allowed to see her.

Everyone blames everything on me.

It hurts deeper than life itself.

You are in my prayers for a peaceful life with your family.

Secretly I wish I could be in the group with Robin to get fit & lose weight.

I was always the skinny kid. I could eat anything & everything so I did & I love good food.

Then came the 40's club & the doctor kept saying "you are a woman at that age" excuse.

Add an injury & surgery. Not to mention STRESS. I am over weight enough to impact my health and my self esteem but not enough to get my doctor to take me serious.

Dr. Phil scares me to death but I sure would be willing to get help. I do know that I need it.