I am a father of 3 children, 2 boys and a girl. The last time my children were with me, 5 years ago, unkown to me my middle son had developed a medical condition asthma, and he required emergency medical treatment and had an inhaler for emergency purpose. I took him on a week vaction on a camping trip a 3 day scanoeing into wilderness. I was in shoch when he told me about his condition after trip. I called his mother about his condition and she just hung up. The kids mother then said the children did not want to see me any more after that visit. I have not forced the issue as I am in fear for the safety of the children and what could happen if they did come with me. Things like this has been ongoing since our seperation and the youngest was 3 years old. I have been to court an number of times before about dening access and contempt of court orders but the courts just ignore the issues and award her cost at my expense. I can understand her being vindictive, mean etc, but I cannot understand how or why the courts would want to reward a parent for this type of behavior. It is the courts fault that if they make an order then it should be enforced.
