Alienation is a conscious evil mainipulation of an innocent child's mind from a selfish narcissitic adult, purely for self gratifiication. Parental Alienation are tactics exercised by non-custodial parents towards custodial parents as well, not just moms who generally have residential custody, against dads. As long as there is access to a child the alinator can get to work
The stories all have the same symptoms - In every case there is denegration, bad-mouthing, false accusations of child abuse (sexual or physical) and brainwashing the child against the target parent. In every case the child expresses unjustified HATRED against the target parent. In every case a normal loving relationship is destroyed and the child is forced to choose sides any attempt to be nice or miss the target parent is considered disloyal and being a traitor. In every case alienation extends to the peripherals and children break ties with any other family member or friend of the target parent. When the symptoms are all the same the disease is the same. If Dr. Phil wants proof, I have proof! When my daughter lived with me, I collected hundreds of hours of instant messages exchanged between my daughter and her stepmother (who is the real alienator - the ex husband is aware and allows it) that evidenced the alienation tactics. From making fun or me, my house, my friends, my job, my town; to ridiculing my daughter's school, her friends, her teams; to pressuring my daughter into writing to judges, calling DFYS and attorneys and providing my daughter with names and addresses of those; to expecting my daughter to participate in plots against me. In addition I have copies that expect her to not join me on vacations or go anywhere with me as well as many instances when my daughter was pressured to choose between going to parties with me during my parenting time, vs. going with them. The expectation was that my daughter should hate me as much as they did. THESE TACTICS ARE REAL THEY ARE DAMAGING AND THEY ARE INTENTIALLY INDUCED INTO OUR CHILDRENS' BRAINS LIKE A POISON. PAS IS REAL and the CULT our children belong to cause them to believe they came up with all of these feelings on their own.
