Messages By: tinybird26

Well Ive already writen this once and I dont see it on here whichmakes me upset wonder why it didnt post?...huh? wellanyway I hope this one shows up. I read one response on here that said if you dont have a child going through this you shouldnt speak on it. I agree with that a hundred percent unless you yousel hav a child going through this then no why should we exect to understand or even comprehend what these familys nd chilren are going through? Love, listenig and tryin to understand why and where your children are coming from is the most important thing you can do for your child as well as yourself.

as I said...unless tis time it posts but just incase it doesnt if you dont have a child goin through this then we really nt know or understand what it is to go through it. Were intittled to our own thoughts and opinions on the matter thats very true but at the same time if we dont know what its like to go through it first hand then how do we really know? All we cando is try to understand. ut until w go through it ourselves then like any situation thats hrd like this and even ones that are harder well never truely understand what and how people feel in these type of situations. Especially if were not the child goig through it well never fully understand how they feel or what theyr going thugh. Love an understanding and trying to see and understand where these parents and children are coming from and that goes for the parnts trying to understand where theirchildren are comng from is the only hing we can do.Above all love and accept everyone jus for how they are no matter where they come from,how they were raised, religion, sexuality,anything. Just accept them for who they are your allowed to disagree with the way they choose to  live or the way they are but just remeber that n the end were all just tying to live our lives and were not so different in the end.

These wonderful children are here to bring light and joy to their parents and are here because obviously they were born so lets enjoy them no matter how they chose to live their lives. They are beautiful children just like every child why cae how they choose to be. If hey grow outof it then so be it.Talk to them and see if you can figure out if it just a faze or if ts really the real thing. If you as a parent feel you need more answers then send them to a speialst if possible.Just love them and try todo the best that you can whch as parents going through this I know you already do:) Peace, love and understanding, and acceptence Thats the way everyone should be .

unfortunatly in this day and time still religion is a forbiden subject which is sad it should be talked about questioned and deeply thought about. Personaly me I question religion all the time and dont care who gets angry at me for it im a free thinker and Im proud of it. I was riased in church and I dont consider myself religious at all anymore Im spiritual. I dont let anyone dictate to me how i should think or how I should act in my life or who I should or shouldnt believe in or give money to No one can control you if you dont let them its all about having a strong mind and and really listening to your inner self as well as questioning everything. I feel as people are easily controled because they want to be and the ybelieve in the things that these people are saying its not wrong to do this stuff not in the least Im sure much of the money you give does indeed go to charity....But my dad is a preacher and yes by the way hes fine with me being a free thinker, my dad doesnt drive a fancy car, or own a rolex, or for that matter any jewlery except his wedding band and he visits the sick, the shut ins, does all kinds of charity work from counciling at the jail to serving meals at ram house for the homeless, to reading to children at childrens homes and never asks for a dime himself....If these are truely men of faith and theyre doing these things in your community then wonerful :) but if not stop and really question yourself before you write that check. Is this really a good decent man who cares about others or just someone trying to get a new rolex for his collection? I in turn do charity work such as my dad and i love every minute of it:) And I dont even have a job right now. But I do it to just be  a good person because it makes you and others feel good about themselves and is a wonderful thing:) Listen to yourself and dont let others fool you into things unless you want to be.

alot of times these guys who do this stuff are in it because they know how vulnerable and acceptable people are to religion. They also know how to get the better of them by seemingly brian washing people into thinking that theyre way is the only way to god. Usually these people are in it for other reasons such as well lets be honest here mostly for money, control, power, and sex, as well as pedophilia, Why so many people still to this day let this happen to them Im not sure. But I think its because its something people are hungry for. The chance to have something real or so it seems to them to grab on to, the fact that theyre not really happy with their life or think that culture in this country is going out of control. But sadly the people who start these things I think know the kind of people they want to target and sadly people answer. I say the more you strenghten your mind and yourself you wont fall for these things unless you really want to. Above all just try to be awae of these things and strengthen your mind against it so maybe these people can be shut down completely......The other thing is some of these guys actually believe it remeber the heavens gate incident? But the ones who tend to really believe it ...usually theyre not the dangerouse ones Ive found theyre really peaceful ...but mentally not right.

More power to you sweetheart:) Iam about to be a mother myself and this is the way i choose to raise my son This is the way I wish more people would choose to bring up their children. Religion doest automaticly make you a good person and doesnt automaticly give you morals its how your raised and how your taught that determins the kind of person youll be in life no matter if its with religion or without religion it shouldnt matter. As long as you raise a strong loving family with good morals and good manners. Thats the important thing:)

this is what ive said all along sadly as we both know people cant seem to mind there ow business so I dontknow if itll ever stop. As for closed minded people such as people that ar in focus on the family...I dont knw what to say about them ? So Iwont say anything about them because why should I judge them when I dont want them judging me...No one should judge anyone in my opinion .You right if everyone minded their own business his world woud be happier. I hope this happens someday.........someday we ca hope cant we?

why dont people like you read? Its not a choice its theway theyre bornand theyre is nothing wrong with it all do you now that animals ar born homosexual? THey dont need help frompeople lie youwho think that their a cure or a perversion of nature! And need to be tured straight They ar beautiful wonderful human beingsthat are here and the kind of help they need is people who supportthem........this is hy im athiest and damn proud of it !!!!!!! JUst accept people for who they are an understnd that its kay to be different.....And ask yourself this why would anyone choose to be gay hen they have to run  up against  people like you? Risk losing theyre familys? and even alot of theye friends ust because they feel different? Why woul anyone choos that? It chromosones and science dears and they dont need help! They are the way they are. But sadly people like yo cant admit that  can you? Theyre people lke you and I why should you care about how they live heyre lives? If theyre no bothering you why do you care?

As I see it .....well let me say first that I used to get teased all the time and really bad too when I was in school. I just ignored it because my family taught me that the only reason kids do this is because its kids nature and second of all to make themselves feel better and third of all just to see how upset and angry they make you. I just ignored it  and didnt pay any attention to the kids who did it to me at all. Because my dad and my mom and my granny raised me to have  a strong mind. I just relized that they were just trying to get to me and since they never did get to me they gave up and picked another target....Now I will admit it took them a long time to get the hint well....I geusse when your a kid it seems like forever but thinking back now on it , it only took a few months for them to get tired of me not reacting to them. If kids would relize that theyres a deleat button on the computer to get rid of the myspace and face book and other things. And then go back in and set up another profile later on and then go to school and just strengthen your mind against these bullies and I think things would be better for them.

Sorry for that I failed to see whee you wre coming from. I geusse its becuse I get so upste about any issue on this matter. One because I have had a very dear friend who passed away  while ago who was gay and miss and love him very much Asobecause I think people should just start relizing that people are the way they are and we hould just accept them fr who they are. You dont have to agree with it but just accept them for who they are. Again Im sorry sweety and hope everyting gt okay after your surgery:) Peace be with you always:) And agree bing gay is not an illness.

I failed to ee where you wr coming from and I eusse itsbecause I get so upset about this issue snce I hd a good friend who passed away a while back a was gay and I love him still and always will.I agree being gay is not an illness and does not ned to be fixed. Its not a choice, I just wish people would learn to mindteyre own business and just relize that everyones different and thats okay, You dont ave to agree with it. Again Im sorry sweety and hope everything went well after your surgey:) Peace be with you always sweety:)