Messages By: no_justice

I have no idea who Carnell Smith or Gloria Allred is, but it sounds like both of them need to do what most judges and attorneys in Chancery Court need to do. (For those who are not familiar with injustice that means they need to get their head out of their crack.) I hope Enrique no longer has to pay child support to a child that is not his biological child. I hope the mother of that child has to return every penny of illegal child support she stole from Enrique. I hope the mother gets the child support her child deserves from the biological father, who should have been paying child support from the very beginning if he is alive and able to do so. Every man that has been paying child support to a child that is not his biological child should sue Gloria Allred and people similar to her to send a message that men who are not the biological father of a child should not have to continue the lie of being the biological father and they should not have to continue paying for a child that is not their biological child. Once a man has discovered that he is not the biological father of a child and he still wants to be a father to that child and pay child support to the child he should be allowed to do so of his own choice and he should be commended for doing an honorable deed. And that child should thank him for it and be grateful that he or she has a man like him in his or her life.

This paragraph is in response to the first 5 messages posted on October 27, 2007 by Princess1, lovthesand1, vixiex, joyklein and archladydi respectively. In some states the child can sue the biological father, after the age of 18 years, and get the child support money he or she did not receive. Be glad the biological father was not in your son’s life and stop thanking god and thank your husband for being who he is and hopefully your son is grateful for having a real man in his life. In the real world and in America women do NOT have an advantage over men. Any man who is being "accused" of being the biological father of a child should immediately request a DNA test if he is in doubt. If he does not then he must want to pay child support for a child that is not his biological child. And if a man does not want any children, he can always get a vasectomy and prevent future children he does not want to be responsible for. I agree, fathers are more than a checkbook, but for those who are not fathers they can be good providers and the woman and the man’s biological child should be grateful for that at least. If two people want a special bond to remain in tack, they will ignore that lack of biology and continue the love that was meant to be and be grateful for one another. Women do ask for DNA test. If a man truly wants to know if a child is his biological child he will take the DNA test or request it himself. Women who know that a man is not the father and just flat out lie should be legally prosecuted in some way. Maybe not jail, unless it is an absolute last resort, but punishment is definitely in order. And I hope all men falsely accused can some day find peace. Again, a man can request a DNA test and should if he feels he is not the biological father. I, personally, am sick and tired of hearing about the rights of mothers and fathers. I want to hear about the rights of children. No one is fighting for their rights. What do the children want? Who do the children want to live with? When will the children be listened too. The children should go to the parent that is emotionally capable of raising the child in a stable loving environment. If the child is happy where he or she is, leave him or her where he or she is. And the father should not get a free pass from his responsibilities. Lying and dodging responsibility is not acceptable from either biological parent.

I know I will miss a good show that day and I probably will not be able to read any more comments after today, but I wish you all well.

I do not get to watch Dr. Phil very often due to work and school hours but I am overjoyed that I was able to view the "Brainwashed By My Parents" episode. I do not know the whole story of each individual case on the stage, but after being forced to endure the psychological abuse of my child with the permission of the "Family Court System" who do not care about the welfare of my child or anything else that concerns my child, and listening to Mel Feit the director of the National Center for Men and the family law attorney Liz Kates, as well as the others, my belief that NO ONE gives a damn about the welfare of children in America is again confirmed. The attorneys representing father's rights do not care about the children. The attorneys representing the angry mothers do not care about the children. And most certainly the Family Court Judges, most of all, do not care about the children. Judges need to be held accountable for the psychological abuse of children more than anyone. ALL CHILD ABUSE ACCUSATIONS need to be taken seriously and investigated thoroughly by an impartial, rational, individual that has the children’s best interest in mind. Children are more damaged when they are taken out of a loving stable home environment. There are many ways visitation can take place without a legal kidnaping. If a child does not want to associate with the other parent, the courts (if they cared, but obviously the courts do not) would find out the real reason why. The platform for "Father's Rights" is being used to take children away from a mother who is raising them and give them to the biological father that does not want to, and in some cases refuse to, pay child support. NO ONE can force a biological parent to be a parent. In many cases, when a biological parent is forced to be a parent, child abuse occurs and it is not from "alienation of parental rights". For those parents who use their children as pons, you are mentally imbalanced and may deserve to have your children temporarily removed from your home IF the other parent is NOT abusing the children. If not temporarily removed from the home, at least have a third party check on the child daily at the home and at different locations where the child may be. I am sick and tired of this so called "Father's Rights" and "Parental Alienation" nonsense. Some Adults need to get their head out of their crack and start paying attention to children.