The Fourteen Days of Loving with Honesty Dyads

Day 13 EVENING ACTIVITY Set up the dyad, having your book and a clock or timer handy. Remember to choose a time that is free of distraction. Step 1: Silently make and maintain eye contact for two minutes. Step 2: Topics for intimate disclosure: Partner A: "If I had the power to change your experiences of life in any way, I would. . ." Three minutes Partner B: "Thank you for caring enough to share, and I promise to weigh it carefully." Partner B: "If I had the power to change your experiences of life in any way, I would. . ." Three minutes Partner A: "Thank you for caring enough to share, and I promise to weigh it carefully." Partner A: "I am most proud of you when. . ." Three minutes Partner B: "Thank you for caring enough to share, and I promise to weigh it carefully." Partner B: "I am most proud of you when. . ." Three minutes Partner A: "Thank you for caring enough to share, and I promise to weigh it carefully." Partner A: "I want you to feel really special because. . ." Three minutes Partner B: "Thank you for caring enough to share, and I promise to weigh it carefully." Partner B: "I want you to feel really special because. . ." Three minutes Partner A: "Thank you for caring enough to share, and I promise to weigh it carefully." Step 3: Standing hug for thirty seconds. Step 4: Please record your thoughts and feelings in your personal journal for five minutes minimum. < Go to day:   1  |  2  |  3  |  4  |  5  |  6  |  7  |  8  |  9  |  10  |  11  |  12  |  13  |  14   For a more in-depth look at yourself, your partner and how to reconnect, you can read Relationship Rescue and do the exercises in Dr Phil's Relationship Rescue Workbook.